06-23-2014, 04:33 PM
Wow, this is reminding me of all sorts of things.
Standoff-ish, definitely these days. Like a plague.
I also had a guy in a truck behind me freak out a few weeks back, then he sped up till he was beside me, I looked at him and he looked at me, then kept driving. I didn't have the desire or the balls to ask him what the problem was though lol.
I'm also relatively ignored these days. By groups that is. When there is a gathering of people, I'm ignored. Today for example, there was a meeting, and I waved at a guy I usually have some good conversations with. He ignored me. Later in the day, I sensed something, looked out the window and saw him staring at me. He then waved, and I waved back. It's almost like people are too embarrassed to have me as part of the group, or I'm one closely guarded secret, but one on one they definitely treat me differently.
I assume it's poor social skills for me.
Perfectionism: definitely, yes. So much so that it's a little intimidating, to me and to others.
And yeah, too many goals. For me, it's just too much to do. I have multiple debts to pay off, I also want to start investing to get some passive income, AND I'm re-organizing my entire life by getting rid of EVERYTHING that I don't need so that I can be a room-mate to someone and save more money and pay off my debts/start investing FASTER.
Sorry for the long post, but it seemed relevant.
Standoff-ish, definitely these days. Like a plague.
I also had a guy in a truck behind me freak out a few weeks back, then he sped up till he was beside me, I looked at him and he looked at me, then kept driving. I didn't have the desire or the balls to ask him what the problem was though lol.
I'm also relatively ignored these days. By groups that is. When there is a gathering of people, I'm ignored. Today for example, there was a meeting, and I waved at a guy I usually have some good conversations with. He ignored me. Later in the day, I sensed something, looked out the window and saw him staring at me. He then waved, and I waved back. It's almost like people are too embarrassed to have me as part of the group, or I'm one closely guarded secret, but one on one they definitely treat me differently.
I assume it's poor social skills for me.
Perfectionism: definitely, yes. So much so that it's a little intimidating, to me and to others.
And yeah, too many goals. For me, it's just too much to do. I have multiple debts to pay off, I also want to start investing to get some passive income, AND I'm re-organizing my entire life by getting rid of EVERYTHING that I don't need so that I can be a room-mate to someone and save more money and pay off my debts/start investing FASTER.
Sorry for the long post, but it seemed relevant.
