01-25-2017, 05:26 AM
Which dating sites are you using? In most markets the selection of sites dedicated to dating is pretty terrible with only maybe a handful of decent women, all of who are getting flooded with creepy messages.
With v day coming up lots of girls will be hitting tinder and bumble, as long as you don't make the same mistake every other guy on those apps makes of:
-using horrible pictures
-showing desperation
-try to get her to go to a random guys house who she never met for sex
-swiping right on every girl and killing your ELO rating which will group you with other low ELO rated women who also swiped right on everything (uglies, fatties, spam bots)
I'd suggest the tinder subreddit for profile tips:
https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/search?q...on&t=month
I played around with bumble last week, overall the quality of girls there is much higher than tinder although there are fewer and they have to message you first before you can speak to them. It has its pros and cons, con is if you've got a good opener to use it's pointless because she'll never see it but if a girl opens you then you know shes serious about meeting and you can flirt a little on text, move to snapchat/instagram/whatsapp for a day or two then get the phone # and setup a date. Bios are also kind of limited, if you want to copy mine:
"Reading, cooking, wine, traveling, friends, gym & binge eating pizza. Just say hi and i'll take it from there"
Most girls are aware of the double standard of just sending "hi" and "hey" because it annoys them, but that's all they do on bumble because the poor girls have absolutely 0 idea how to approach guys so that last part gives them the green light to just do it knowing I'll lead the convo. My female friends who reviewed my profile loved that line.
As for meeting women in the real world in my experience the biggest obstacle guys have is that they simply don't do any activities or go places where women are. My brother had this problem big time, he only knew 1 girl who was a "tomboy" and all his friends did was play xbox in his room, play baseball/basketball, and he was in engineering so almost 0 women. Once I actually forced him to go get a job at starbucks and "drugged" him to be more social (with pheromones) his dating life did a 180. He could have had manifestation in 10g and it probably wouldn't have done him any good because he was either studying in his room or stuck in a legitimate sausage fest.
I'm not saying that's the case with you but you get what i'm saying, manifestations are probably like throwing darts. The more darts you throw the more likely it is you'll hit a bullseye, the more women you're around the more manifestation success you'll have.
If girls are already taken, just approach and be friends with them. You have no idea how much girls value male friends that GENUINELY like hanging with them don't ONLY want to get into their pants especially at your age. They're humans just like you and like socializing with people that have similar interests or can show them something new. Too many pua/dating tip/mens magazines try to push the "avoid friendzone at all costs" line but the friendzone doesn't really exist. It's a lack of attraction zone because most guys orbit some girl like a lost puppy for 3 years and wonder why there is no attraction.
The problem is guys get friendzoned, develop some game, but then forget if they had game before they got friendzoned, they never would have been friendzoned in the fist place. Girls hookup with their male friends all the time, just not the needy ones who are only friends with them so they can try and date/bang them. But even if you don't date/bang them, you meet a cool person who like hanging out with and new options in her social circle open up. Despite PUA marketing the reality is 90% of hookups (outside of dating sites/apps) happen through social circles and not cold approach. The highest "cold approach" pickup style is actually cold approach -> one night social circle -> hookup.
Since you didn't get to meet the people in the online class if I was in your situation I would just casually message a few and ask if there is a facebook group setup for the students in the class, if there isn't one set it up yourself and start inviting people to it. Don't try to game any of them or it will probably creep them out, and it's probably better to start with guys, then girls who have a boyfriend, then girls who are single. Once you have that setup you have the perfect segway to moving from class mates to friends.
With v day coming up lots of girls will be hitting tinder and bumble, as long as you don't make the same mistake every other guy on those apps makes of:
-using horrible pictures
-showing desperation
-try to get her to go to a random guys house who she never met for sex
-swiping right on every girl and killing your ELO rating which will group you with other low ELO rated women who also swiped right on everything (uglies, fatties, spam bots)
I'd suggest the tinder subreddit for profile tips:
https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/search?q...on&t=month
I played around with bumble last week, overall the quality of girls there is much higher than tinder although there are fewer and they have to message you first before you can speak to them. It has its pros and cons, con is if you've got a good opener to use it's pointless because she'll never see it but if a girl opens you then you know shes serious about meeting and you can flirt a little on text, move to snapchat/instagram/whatsapp for a day or two then get the phone # and setup a date. Bios are also kind of limited, if you want to copy mine:
"Reading, cooking, wine, traveling, friends, gym & binge eating pizza. Just say hi and i'll take it from there"
Most girls are aware of the double standard of just sending "hi" and "hey" because it annoys them, but that's all they do on bumble because the poor girls have absolutely 0 idea how to approach guys so that last part gives them the green light to just do it knowing I'll lead the convo. My female friends who reviewed my profile loved that line.
As for meeting women in the real world in my experience the biggest obstacle guys have is that they simply don't do any activities or go places where women are. My brother had this problem big time, he only knew 1 girl who was a "tomboy" and all his friends did was play xbox in his room, play baseball/basketball, and he was in engineering so almost 0 women. Once I actually forced him to go get a job at starbucks and "drugged" him to be more social (with pheromones) his dating life did a 180. He could have had manifestation in 10g and it probably wouldn't have done him any good because he was either studying in his room or stuck in a legitimate sausage fest.
I'm not saying that's the case with you but you get what i'm saying, manifestations are probably like throwing darts. The more darts you throw the more likely it is you'll hit a bullseye, the more women you're around the more manifestation success you'll have.
If girls are already taken, just approach and be friends with them. You have no idea how much girls value male friends that GENUINELY like hanging with them don't ONLY want to get into their pants especially at your age. They're humans just like you and like socializing with people that have similar interests or can show them something new. Too many pua/dating tip/mens magazines try to push the "avoid friendzone at all costs" line but the friendzone doesn't really exist. It's a lack of attraction zone because most guys orbit some girl like a lost puppy for 3 years and wonder why there is no attraction.
The problem is guys get friendzoned, develop some game, but then forget if they had game before they got friendzoned, they never would have been friendzoned in the fist place. Girls hookup with their male friends all the time, just not the needy ones who are only friends with them so they can try and date/bang them. But even if you don't date/bang them, you meet a cool person who like hanging out with and new options in her social circle open up. Despite PUA marketing the reality is 90% of hookups (outside of dating sites/apps) happen through social circles and not cold approach. The highest "cold approach" pickup style is actually cold approach -> one night social circle -> hookup.
Since you didn't get to meet the people in the online class if I was in your situation I would just casually message a few and ask if there is a facebook group setup for the students in the class, if there isn't one set it up yourself and start inviting people to it. Don't try to game any of them or it will probably creep them out, and it's probably better to start with guys, then girls who have a boyfriend, then girls who are single. Once you have that setup you have the perfect segway to moving from class mates to friends.
