01-15-2017, 11:10 PM
(01-15-2017, 10:03 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: I've heard that before, and I tried it, but it didn't work (in fact, for most of my life I didn't care about sex or getting it, and I'm still a virgin. hmmm.)
Also, it's important to note that i got my makeouts spoecifically because that's what i was after. I didn't "let things happen", I made it my goal and got it.
So yeah, I recognize that it prolly does work that way for some people, but it doesn't for me.
Of course, you should know what works best for you. It's very difficult to find what works and what doesn't. I also suppose that the successes with different methods would also depend on the target girl. So to me all of these seem quite complicated. (But I also think/feel that it shouldn't be a complicated matter.)
(01-15-2017, 10:03 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: Fair enough, and to be honest, if you two started talking about living alone and stuff you'd prolly get to relate to her.
Also, I'm not saying helping women is the wrong thing to do, I'm just saying i wouldn't help a woman move. I'd prolly help her make dinner or something like that tho.
I didn't clarify enough. The girl isn't living alone, she was and is living with roommates. I just know about difficulty moving as I lived in dorm for nearly 5 years (which requires moving every year or so), and I had about 3~4 major moving. (About twice was international moving). So I know that's difficult. Let's just say that because of my experience, I genuinely wanted to help despite whatever else. (And that I was also available.)
Besides, she got someone else to help her at the moment. I just know that it's usually helpful to have more people when moving to a new location. In the end, she didn't need me (or didn't want me), and that's how it went. And I didn't know, and still don't know whether I should like how it went or not. It feels a bit sad, and odd when nobody else needs my help even when I would like to offer. (Or those who want/need are requesting what I can't offer.) It doesn't feel all that bad, but it's difficult to describe what I felt like and what I feel like when stuff like this happens.
Again, I probably took things a little too much here, and may have given a little over the limit response to your post. I hope that I didn't make you feel bad or anything from my previous post. If I did, I'm sorry that it happened.