12-30-2016, 07:19 PM
Photos... Let's just say that going for the professional can bring out my best self. Since I mentioned that I usually don't look good on the photos, I wanted to hire professionals. (Who should be better at making me look more like myself or look better than any random strangers or friends) Besides, I just wanted to get it done, to start something. Maybe this isn't the best course of action, but I took it, and that was what was important to me. I took a step in doing something, instead of doing nothing, or equivalent to nothing. For that I am quite content and amazed. (This was a wall that I couldn't quite cross in the past, but now I am about to.)
And Sarge, let's think this more like a case of trying to present yourself the best way, (or the truest self) which will likely bring out the best girl or better girl than if I didn't do it. For me, I didn't care about what the girls thought (maybe I did to a some degree), but it was more about okay, what can I do to bring more success? What is the fist thing I can do to take some actions? It was also the case that I got a great deal, and that made a huge difference.
Besides, wasn't it eternity (it could have been you) who said that even if a guy is 10/10, the guy's not going to get a date, if he doesn't take care of himself (i.e. dressing neatly, cleaning himself, and etc.). I'll take that a good photo (i.e. hiring a professional) is to show something about that.
I don't know if I'm making the situation worse here, but I wanted to share the thought since this photo thing seems to be getting more chaotic.
And Sarge, let's think this more like a case of trying to present yourself the best way, (or the truest self) which will likely bring out the best girl or better girl than if I didn't do it. For me, I didn't care about what the girls thought (maybe I did to a some degree), but it was more about okay, what can I do to bring more success? What is the fist thing I can do to take some actions? It was also the case that I got a great deal, and that made a huge difference.
Besides, wasn't it eternity (it could have been you) who said that even if a guy is 10/10, the guy's not going to get a date, if he doesn't take care of himself (i.e. dressing neatly, cleaning himself, and etc.). I'll take that a good photo (i.e. hiring a professional) is to show something about that.
I don't know if I'm making the situation worse here, but I wanted to share the thought since this photo thing seems to be getting more chaotic.
