09-27-2016, 06:18 AM
Shannon,
There was something I remembered from a number of years ago. A friend of mine was describing a sexual "relationship" she had with a man. She spoke of this man with admiration, respect, and awe. She practically idolized him.
He would show up at her house unannounced and unexpected when ever he wanted. She welcomed that. And he would have sex with her and then leave. Some times she wouldn't see him for months. She was more than "fine" with that. She seemed to love it! And as far as I knew, he was the only sexual partner she had. Like she saved herself for him even though she never knew when she would see him again.
She had options in terms of men so it's hardly because she was desperate. She was very attractive. And yet... who would have known?
So Shannon, you are very smart about these things. Somewhere in here are probably clues or ideas that could help with DMSI, but I could only guess what they are.
There was something I remembered from a number of years ago. A friend of mine was describing a sexual "relationship" she had with a man. She spoke of this man with admiration, respect, and awe. She practically idolized him.
He would show up at her house unannounced and unexpected when ever he wanted. She welcomed that. And he would have sex with her and then leave. Some times she wouldn't see him for months. She was more than "fine" with that. She seemed to love it! And as far as I knew, he was the only sexual partner she had. Like she saved herself for him even though she never knew when she would see him again.
She had options in terms of men so it's hardly because she was desperate. She was very attractive. And yet... who would have known?
So Shannon, you are very smart about these things. Somewhere in here are probably clues or ideas that could help with DMSI, but I could only guess what they are.
