04-10-2017, 04:57 AM
(04-08-2017, 03:21 PM)eternity Wrote: ESTJ, from the few people I know who ARE ESTJ, are definitely natural alpha. One is a woman and two of them are men. They have booming, commander voices, very funny, and are very conscious of the social dynamic, ensuring those in their "pack" are taken care of. I have lived with all 3 at various times in my life, and the pattern is pretty evident. I'm at the anime convention with one of the ESTJ's. His natural alpha style is what made me feel insecure just an hour ago. He is a great leader and makes sure to check and see that all of us are taken care of.
Here's my opinion about ESTJs. My best friend and girlfriend are ESTJs. So this is only based on two people I know. It is true that they look alpha, and all of your description is correct, but it's only appearance. Once you get to know their insecurities, you'll have a totally different view
They're suckers for attention, hold grudges, have a need to seek revenge with their own hands, and they can't stand their own jokes done on them... They are know-it-alls, do not make mistakes, and have the need to be right all the time... Again, this is based off two people, but it's amazing how similar they are in these aspects. You still see them as alpha?
INFJ
