06-09-2017, 10:20 AM
(This post was last modified: 06-09-2017, 11:32 AM by SargeMaximus.)
(06-09-2017, 08:30 AM)Mr. Anderson Wrote: And regarding asking questions, it's not that I didn't want, there was really NOTHING in my mind I could ask.
I understand. I'm the same way. What works for me is asking basic questions and then improving from there. So I could ask "what do you do?" and she could say "I'm a secretary" and then I'd let my imagination go wild
Me: "ooh... so you like to wear short skirts and glasses?"
Just gotta go with it and say random/dumb shit sometimes. Just like with my hairdresser, sometimes just going for it is what woirks (like the first kiss I got. Totally didn't believe I'd get it, but went for it anyhow).
Basically belief is not a prerequisite.
(06-09-2017, 09:01 AM)4Kingdoms Wrote: http://subliminal-talk.com/thread-8538-p...#pid170377
(06-08-2017, 04:55 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: Holy shit... I may have found a "key" to socializing. Move over "How to Win Friends and Influence People", there's a new book in town!(06-08-2017, 08:33 PM)Travis Wrote: So whats the name of the book?(06-08-2017, 08:54 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: Not ready to give that up yet. Gotta test to make sure it's not just the uniform. A week at least. If it holds up to scrutiny I'll feel better about recommending it.
Hopefully Sarge will share the name of the book once it holds up to his scrutiny.
If it holds up I will for sure. Just gotta put it through a week of solid use.
The main areas are:
1. Sales (does it work when I'm not wearing my uniform as well as when I am?)
2. Women (Does it help hook them better off approaches?)
3. My hairdresser (is it going to help or hinder my advances on her?)
4. Family (Is it going to create better bonds?)
5. Work (will my co-workers like me better, will I be promoted, will I get a raise, train new people, etc)
I should be able to have a good feel for that by not this sunday but the next.