(05-15-2017, 01:25 AM)swisston Wrote: I do think that once it starts, it's going to work big time. I know that Shannon thinks that I am a slow changer, but when that change happens, it happens fast for me. I have made major life switches in the past and actually consider my adaptability to be one of my strengths.
The thing here is that it doesn't feel like a decision or something that I am choosing - it feels out of my control.
I know, mate! It feels out of my control too. It's somewhat annoyed me in the past when it seemed like "well, it's easy to get results, just stop resisting", lol. To me, it's like saying to someone else, "it's easy to be a millionaire, just have 1 million dollars", haha. Easier said than done, and oversimplifies it a bit.
With what is being proposed for V3.2, two things in particular, the new classification for anything other then execution, as self sabotage and resistance now, to then be filtered into the ASS/ART for processing. And not allowing deviation/subversion of that like what can happen now when some of our minds play "lawyer games" with the script, lol. As well as not allowing the self sabotage of blinding yourself to results happening to allow for you to resist the change in the sub, or even to give justification to quitting, should help both of us a lot. Those, along side lots of other changes, and the usual 2-3X strengthening. It'll be a big step forward, I'm sure. I wrote that big post awhile ago about the problem areas I identified on this program. And it was awesome to hear Shannon already had plans to implement most of them. And found the others useful. So, for me personally, V3.2 should be a big step forward then, as many of those issues, if not all, could be vanquished, so I'm expecting a big change for me next version, given that. I remember you and I found a commonality there too in a problem area, excellent. I highlighted that for Shannon in a separate post, and he was right on the ball. So we may get there soon. Remember though, even now, you are getting clear external signs from women, due to what your girlfriend said. So, it's working now for you. It'll only get easier and more obvious in time then. Me? I still need that moment like yours, we'll see when it comes.
I'm not stonewalling either anymore, by definition, because I wouldn't have at LEAST gotten the internal benefits so far. So we're both seeing something, different kinds of results, one internal, one internal AND external, but something.
He said for me, it's likely just a case of the dam holding it all back, until BOOM, a flood of results big time all at once when it breaks through the wall. I understand the thinking, I don't think it can go on forever like this, sooner or later it has to give out. I agree with that, makes sense, and figure it'll be the same for you, too, given that you're even getting clear external results. Neither of us are stonewalling
. I'm not sure anyone is anymore in fact.Just remember, you are getting internal AND external results. You aren't Thomas Jonathan Jackson anymore, hahaha
. Matter of time now...
