Haven't updated in awhile but here are my observations for what it's worth. I will be brief with reporting IOI's as they have become the norm. A lot of them but unfortunately not a lot of approaches.
At work, whenever I am sitting for lunch, I will have 2 or 3 women joining me. This never used to happened before. However, if they are affected, they are very good at hiding it, as convos never go in the direction I'm interested in. One of my colleague who gave birth recently, came to show off her baby a few days ago. Before, she left back home, she asked that I help her bring her baby to the car as she had her hands full with the gifts that she got. Got to the car and helped her put the baby in the back seat. Before she hops into the car she gives me a really tight lingering hug. For about 5 seconds she was basically hanging off my neck.
Yesterday at work, one female colleague asked me to show her how to set up the alarm in the building. As I was showing her how, a male colleague came over and was basically cock blocking me. The nice thing is that she completely ignored him and as we left thanked me for helping her out salvaging a corrupt computer file a few days ago. She kept the conversation going, but since it was late and had things to do, I had to cut the conversation short.
Was at the mall last week and walked by a kiosk where they are selling beauty products. I usually don't have any problems being hounded as they are usually targeting women who are walking by. That day, I made eye contact with the sales person, a woman in her mid 20's who's an 8. Here's how the convo went.
Her: Are you using anything for your face?
Me: Does it look like I need to?
Her: No, you skin looks amazing.
Her: Show me your left hand.
She squeezes some cream out of a tube and rubs it on my hand. She talks about the properties of the cream and so on. I asked her if she was eastern European, as I thought she was either Russian or Polish based on her accent. She tells me she's from Belgium. I asked if she spoke French. She responds "No, but I speak Flemish". We ended up talking some more and she didn't even try to sell me stuff as I was leaving.
One weird thing happened at Walmart. Was in line for the express check out, where there's usually 2 cashier processing people. I was next in line when I see another cashier walking to an empty check out. She calls me over and when I got there she's chewing a mouthful of food. I'm guessing she's was on her break. I had two small items and she ask if I need a bag. I say no as I don't want to pay the environmental fee for the bag. I pay for the purchase and as I'm about to leave she ask again if I need a bag. I politely tell her that I don't need one. She pleads with me to take one and says. I'll give it to you for free. I start to walk away and she's walks behind me asking me to take the bag.
At the gym. I'm noticing interest from a few tatted up women. Every time at the gym, I have 2 or 3 women hovering around me.
At work, whenever I am sitting for lunch, I will have 2 or 3 women joining me. This never used to happened before. However, if they are affected, they are very good at hiding it, as convos never go in the direction I'm interested in. One of my colleague who gave birth recently, came to show off her baby a few days ago. Before, she left back home, she asked that I help her bring her baby to the car as she had her hands full with the gifts that she got. Got to the car and helped her put the baby in the back seat. Before she hops into the car she gives me a really tight lingering hug. For about 5 seconds she was basically hanging off my neck.
Yesterday at work, one female colleague asked me to show her how to set up the alarm in the building. As I was showing her how, a male colleague came over and was basically cock blocking me. The nice thing is that she completely ignored him and as we left thanked me for helping her out salvaging a corrupt computer file a few days ago. She kept the conversation going, but since it was late and had things to do, I had to cut the conversation short.
Was at the mall last week and walked by a kiosk where they are selling beauty products. I usually don't have any problems being hounded as they are usually targeting women who are walking by. That day, I made eye contact with the sales person, a woman in her mid 20's who's an 8. Here's how the convo went.
Her: Are you using anything for your face?
Me: Does it look like I need to?
Her: No, you skin looks amazing.
Her: Show me your left hand.
She squeezes some cream out of a tube and rubs it on my hand. She talks about the properties of the cream and so on. I asked her if she was eastern European, as I thought she was either Russian or Polish based on her accent. She tells me she's from Belgium. I asked if she spoke French. She responds "No, but I speak Flemish". We ended up talking some more and she didn't even try to sell me stuff as I was leaving.
One weird thing happened at Walmart. Was in line for the express check out, where there's usually 2 cashier processing people. I was next in line when I see another cashier walking to an empty check out. She calls me over and when I got there she's chewing a mouthful of food. I'm guessing she's was on her break. I had two small items and she ask if I need a bag. I say no as I don't want to pay the environmental fee for the bag. I pay for the purchase and as I'm about to leave she ask again if I need a bag. I politely tell her that I don't need one. She pleads with me to take one and says. I'll give it to you for free. I start to walk away and she's walks behind me asking me to take the bag.
At the gym. I'm noticing interest from a few tatted up women. Every time at the gym, I have 2 or 3 women hovering around me.
INTJ
