(12-04-2016, 05:29 PM)RTBoss Wrote:(12-04-2016, 02:24 PM)Snoop Wrote:(12-04-2016, 11:53 AM)swisston Wrote: Maybe she just senses you becoming more desirable to women and feels insecure?
You could be right. But I suspect that she's trying to bait me. Maybe to get an excuse for her to do the same. She's been saying in the last few months that she wants to go out with her friends. I have no problem with that but I'm wondering in the back of my mind what she's up to.
After you explained your situation at home awhile back, and then reading that your wife asked if you thought about sleeping with other people, my immediate thought was she's been having thoughts of sleeping with other people and wanted to see if you were as well. That's a hard question to answer honestly if the answer is, "Yes."
I personally don't believe in being "honest," as a must-follow rule. For instance, when my brother and I applied for the same job in high school, I got the job and he didn't. The question that lost him the opportunity was, "Are you willing to work holidays?" I said, "Yes," and he said, "No, I enjoy spending the holidays with my family." If you want the job, you tell them what they want to hear.
Another example is when your wife asks, "Does this article of clothing make me look fat?" I don't think a smart man would ever say "Yes," unless they're not protecting their spouse's feelings or they're looking for a fight.
I thought as much and that is why i was wondering if She's being affected by the sub. She also shared that some of the younger dudes at work have been checking her out. To be frank, and I've told her as much, I don't have any intention of sleeping with any one else. That being said, she's a responsible adult and trust that she will make a good decision if tempted. I can't be paranoid and won't lose sleep over this.
INTJ
