Went to the gym last night after work. As I got in, a woman who regurlarly attends was about to leave smiled at me and shyly said hi. She was clearly displaying submissive BL (looking at the floor while smiling). I returned her greeting. She looked up at me and said enjoy your workout while heading out. She's in great shape and great looking wouldn't have a problem asking her out if I wasn't married. I'm the only one doing cardio and got on the treadmill for a run. About 5 min later, a really cute early 20 ish girl walks in and starts using the treadmill next to me. She kept peeking at me every min or so. Man, I wish I knew then what I know now. I would have handled things differently.
What RT Boss wrote about awhile back about missed opportunities really resonated with me and as I think about it, it could be a reason why I'm using this sub.
I seem to be getting better responses from men on 2.4 than 2.5. Respect from them is way up and I'm being treated as a friend rather than seeing the aggression that I've experienced on 2.5. Maybe for some of us, the version with clearing is the best option.
What RT Boss wrote about awhile back about missed opportunities really resonated with me and as I think about it, it could be a reason why I'm using this sub.
I seem to be getting better responses from men on 2.4 than 2.5. Respect from them is way up and I'm being treated as a friend rather than seeing the aggression that I've experienced on 2.5. Maybe for some of us, the version with clearing is the best option.
INTJ
