04-26-2023, 09:38 PM
7 loops (Day 3 of Cycle 5)
Continuing off of yesterday's theme, I am in more conversations with guys and girls than usual. Whether that's meeting new people for the first time, catching up with friends I hadn't seen in forever, or just simple small talk, I've been in way more social situations than I normally am in and I'm not even trying. It just happens.
Nothing significant in terms of talking to attractive girls but they are much more obvious in their attraction to me than before, similar to what I mentioned yesterday. In one instance, a girl who has shown interest (eye contact, body language, etc) who I usually see in the gym every day made the effort to get physically closer to me. She has a boyfriend so she can't be too obvious about it. As I was going to go grab a dumbbell for my exercise, I noticed she was walking right behind me with my back turned. When I grabbed the dumbbell and turned around to walk back to my spot in the gym, she immediately started making a conversation with 2 guys right next to where I was standing and strategically stood in a spot where I had to walk right by her to get around them. I wouldn't consider this anything noteworthy but she did it again 15 mins later with her boyfriend right next to her! Almost like she was trying to get in my way. Also had another girl in the gym who was staring me down completely the whole time I was in her view. If I stared at a girl as much as she was staring at me, I'd probably be called a creep. All to say, this makes me feel pretty good.
I feel a sense of optimism about loops 8 & 9 and I don't know why. Overall, I'm skeptical of what will happen but something is happening. I can definitely feel the effects increasing. I don't think I've talked to this many new people since the first week of college. I'm hoping something big will happen but I just need to take it one day at a time...
Continuing off of yesterday's theme, I am in more conversations with guys and girls than usual. Whether that's meeting new people for the first time, catching up with friends I hadn't seen in forever, or just simple small talk, I've been in way more social situations than I normally am in and I'm not even trying. It just happens.
Nothing significant in terms of talking to attractive girls but they are much more obvious in their attraction to me than before, similar to what I mentioned yesterday. In one instance, a girl who has shown interest (eye contact, body language, etc) who I usually see in the gym every day made the effort to get physically closer to me. She has a boyfriend so she can't be too obvious about it. As I was going to go grab a dumbbell for my exercise, I noticed she was walking right behind me with my back turned. When I grabbed the dumbbell and turned around to walk back to my spot in the gym, she immediately started making a conversation with 2 guys right next to where I was standing and strategically stood in a spot where I had to walk right by her to get around them. I wouldn't consider this anything noteworthy but she did it again 15 mins later with her boyfriend right next to her! Almost like she was trying to get in my way. Also had another girl in the gym who was staring me down completely the whole time I was in her view. If I stared at a girl as much as she was staring at me, I'd probably be called a creep. All to say, this makes me feel pretty good.
I feel a sense of optimism about loops 8 & 9 and I don't know why. Overall, I'm skeptical of what will happen but something is happening. I can definitely feel the effects increasing. I don't think I've talked to this many new people since the first week of college. I'm hoping something big will happen but I just need to take it one day at a time...
