04-15-2023, 10:29 PM
(04-15-2023, 03:01 AM)samba99 Wrote: Hey man, Shannon definitely can advise you better. But I can comment on your last post.
Based on your interest currently, and without directing your self away much from your interest. I believe you honestly need DMSI and not the X4a, don’t get me wrong the X4a is a fantastic sub but it’s not great with dealing what you experience.
Either you suck it up and go approach them, or check better alternative sub like DMSI.
I’m one of the very few people who have used DMSI from version 2.3 all the way to version 3.5 on continuous basis. After using this sub for so long, when I tried X4a it was just as if I already reached the middle sea and now taking a speed boat to different islands nearby.
But how I see in your case is that you still in your foreign country (beliefs) and you haven’t left that place yet, and you need a titanic (DMSI) to get you at least far in the sea.
DMSI deals with a wide range of things. Not sure about the latest version not having fear removal for user side, so here where Shannon input is better needed for you.
Since I used all versions from 2.3 to 3.5 I can’t really tell which one got me there, but I all work to improve certain area.
These religious imposed beliefs will be dealt with, also including any issues with self esteem, masturbation, porn etc all these will be washed away with DMSI.
Good luck!
I appreciate you chiming in. My plan, regardless what happens, is to run OGSF in the summer when I'm not in school and run DMSI when I'm back. This way i can remove the baggage/ fears, shame, doubt, etc that's holding me back.
However, I believe hope isn't all lost. I think if I can start talking to girls more (at least the ones I already know on some level), then maybe something can come out of this.
For example, yesterday I was working at my job (college job) and there was a girl that I have always been attracted to but just have never made any kind of effort to get to know her. Anyways, while I was working I was thinking about how I'm always limiting my opportunities with girls. For example, I'll have a really good 1-2 min conversation with a girl but then I'll end it or go do something else because I feel so much pressure for whatever reason. And usually after that, I don't speak to them much again. So after having another short conversation with another girl in the office, I started getting mad. I pulled myself into a space where I could be alone for a minute and decided that I can't keep doing this. So, I walk back out and when I see this girl that I mentioned earlier, I decided to talk with her. She seemed much more open to conversation than usual and her body language indicated that she wanted to talk with me. We made some small talk and then I directed the topic of conversation over to her and her life. During this, I was able to learn some interesting things about her and we just chatted comfortably, with me being totally comfortable. We talked for about 5-10 mins and it was by far the best conversation we've had. After that, I could tell in her body language that she seems more different around me (in a good way) almost like I was a different guy. I wouldn't date her though since she is about to graduate and has a job in place while I still have a few more years to go.
Overall, I feel like if I can approach and talk to more women, then I might be able to do something with this sub. I'm also planning on increasing the loops by 1 this next cycle so we'll see how it goes. Still getting plenty of looks and some girls' tactics are quite interesting to say the least... started to have some smile back. Others just try to get in my line of view and "coincidentally" cross paths with me multiple times. I feel like I have a shot. But we will see.
Can't wait to be like you and get a taste of what DMSI is all about!
