(04-13-2023, 06:04 PM)Shannon Wrote:Quote:@Shannon What would be the best way to go about this? Should I wait until they come up to me and talk or should I initiate? Also, what would happen if someone, for example, was in my class and we were in the same room for 2-3 hours a week. If I said nothing, would they build up so much tension that they would have to come talk to me?
The best way to go about this is...
1. Only used Masked for one full usage cycle, and then decide which format to use and stay with it.
2. Throw your expectations away. When you have expectations, they're usually based on assumptions and incorrect ideas or beliefs or conclusions, which lead you to expect things that don't happen. This causes disappointment when it's not warranted. Throw them away and let things be what they are.
3. For goodness sake... stop trying so damned hard! Don't worry about who responds or how. Just do your thing and let them do theirs. Right now what you're doing is showing body language and signs of desperation while projecting an aura that turns them on, which creates the situation you see now: 4-5-6s and some 7s respond well with more obvious positive and interested responses, and 8-9-10s and some 7s will notice you, but start examining you because you're not being CONGRUENT. Instead of getting anywhere, you're making them suspicious, because they feel an effect (maybe arousal if your subconscious is allowing it) but they are subconsciously and probably consciously also seeing that you're not doing the right things for them to respond the way you want.
The correct way to get 7-8-9-10 interested when using this program is to use it properly and just be yourself. Let it be what it will be. STOP BEING DESPERATE AND NEEDY, and STOP WITH EXPECTATIONS!
You will never get anywhere with the 8-9-10s (and especially the 10s) if you don't act the right way, and the right way is... "I'm doing my thing, and I don't care what you're doing." This is how a truly high value man acts when he encounters her, and it is CONGRUENT with a spontaneously wet kitty from her encountering you, which makes her believe she is naturally attracted to you and she will begin doing the things necessary to make something happen if she is free to and wants to.
If you get her wet and then act desperate, she will conclude that you're up to something, and will not move forward. She won't trust how she feels because you're telling her with your actions and body language that you're desperate and needy, which will be an instant shut down, and her kitty will dry up no matter what you do with X4A-1000.
Perfect 10s are almost impossible to get unless you're very famous, very wealthy, very powerful, you happen to know how to get her emotionally involved or you happen to randomly have a specific energy level compatibility with her, which is rare. Getting her emotionally involved gets into manipulation, which I definitely don't recommend.
Generally speaking you will get positive, obvious responses from women who see you as +1, +/-0 or -1 to what they rate themselves on a scale of 1 to 10 physically. Above that, you need to start giving the right signals to be congruent with how you're affecting her at the very least. If you're a 5 in her book, and she's a 10 in her book, then you better be giving the body language she expects from a 9 or 10 along with the effects your aura has, and you better act like that 9 or 10 in every other way or she will see you as in-congruent and blow you out for being a fake.
X4A-1000 can do amazing things, but it's not going to magically land any man a 9 or 10 just because he executes and gets her wet for the moment. She's used to guys pulling all manner of sneaky shit trying to get inside her, and she's got walls up and shit tests ad infinitum to weed out those who aren't really the high value guys. So either accept the women who want you, or become the man who the women you want are willing to have sex with. And no, I don't mean become an asshole, deceptive, manipulator or any of that crap.
Damn.
I just read this after posting my about Day 6.
When reading this, I honestly was a little shocked because all this time I didn't feel like I had been acting desperate. Sure, I created expectations but I never felt that I was being super needy. But after looking back, I've definitely been trying to control this thing. During this run, I've definitely have gotten frustrated since I've been trying to force the aura to project on certain people. You're right, I should let go and just be myself.
As far as desperation, I hope I'm not being incongruent. Reason I say "hope" is because I thought I've done a good job being myself. Usually when I think of acts of desperation, I think of constant staring, trying to get in a woman's pants kind of mindset. For me, I don't stare girls down (even if my posts have been implying it). I've usually just have been myself doing my own thing. Naturally I show this on this outside but on the inside I've been super ecstatic and excited with all the attention I'm getting. If anything, I've been more serious and to myself since starting. Today was the first day I actually smiled at girls and had one case where two 9s were seductively staring and smiling at me as they were slowly driving past me in their Jeep...
All of this to say, maybe I am showing signs of desperation and I'm not knowing it. I will say that for the girls I do know, they are very hyper and very willing to talk, so much so I've tried avoiding some. For the girls I don't know, just stares/ glances.
I'm really wanting this sub to work well since I have less than a month before everyone goes home for the summer. But, that's likely my problem. I should just let go and stop trying to put so many expectations and weight when running this.
edit: Don't think I ever mentioned this but I've been stared at by girls for all my life. I'm a 8/9 in looks and I have constantly have gotten IOIs from 4s all the way to 10s from elementary school all the way till college. I literally have love letters in my closet of all the times girls have tried to "shoot their shot" (even in college). I have many guy friends and always am finding guys to talk to wherever I go. I'm also very secure in the way I view myself and feel confident in who I am. Women should be a given for me. But, when I was a kid, I had very religious beliefs instilled in me such as not having sex till marriage. While a good principle, I took it to the extreme mindset that I shouldn't be intimate with a girl at all until marriage. How stupid of a belief. Anyways, I say this because my downfall with women hasn't necessarily been desperation, it has mostly been due to the fact that I don't "make the move" so to speak. I feel like if I can give them the opportunity to make them feel comfortable talking to me (likely by me starting a conversation) then all these looks would turn into dates. To be honest, I get kind of mad reading what you said just because it's not that I'm just some guy who's completely desperate. On some level, I'm used to getting these looks and stares without having to do anything. I just have been holding myself back from women for so long and I'm trying to now actually let myself be present and have fun interacting with women. In other words, maybe if I just TALK to them instead of staying at a distance, I can actually get somewhere.
