Clamshell's weekly journal

[WildFlower]

I know when a woman is not interested, that much is certain.

or rather you think you know.

Often I'll get a hunch, a gut feeling, that a women is interested. Like Shannon said, women send subtle signs. Body language books would tell me I'm picking up on these subtle signs subconsciously, hence the gut feeling. Perhaps though I get this feeling because I assume everyone I meet is attracted unless something suggests otherwise. My default belief is - and has always been - that a lot of people are attracted to me (very weirdly so considering some of my previous beliefs). So is it my subconscious mind reading subtle signs or my subconscious mind just filtering and warping reality through it's belief system? Probably a bit of both. They're probably both interconnected anyway. Chicken and the Egg sort of thing. Ideally I'd like to be able to trust my gut a little more, but I don't know how I'd go about doing that. I may eventually see Shannon about creating a custom 'read body language' subliminal or something.

Anyway, I hope you see the point I'm trying to make. Although we seemingly have completely opposing issues here, it's actually exactly the same thing at play.