10-17-2016, 11:49 PM
(10-17-2016, 01:38 PM)chaosvrgn Wrote: You know, I never thought I'd be saying this... but I'm a bit with some of Sarge's principles right now. I've been thinking about this all day. In my travels around the U.S., I've met and worked with tons of millionaires and a few billionaires. Tons of men that get laid all the time and have massive amounts of power. And that's where I want to be.
And you know what? None of them are zen.
ALL of them have a threatening edge.
And women and society eat it up. They do what they want. The world is their playground. I've tried to be zen and docile throughout all my 20's and it really didn't do shit for me. Now, I'm heading into my 30's, where I SHOULD be at my prime, and I look at all I lost trying to be "zen" and "docile."
I think self-mastery and zen are two separate entities. Because you can be a powerful asshole and still have self-mastery. In fact, it takes lots of self-mastery and self-actualization to remain at the top, because EVERYONE'S COMING FOR YOU.
**** being Zen for now. I want pussy and I want power and I say **** anyone who stands in the way of that goal.
My entire life, I've always had this low-level fear cycling beneath whatever I'm feeling. I'm tired of it. It's held me back for so long. I want to be a god among men. I've always wanted this, just convinced myself for so long that I didn't.
Something's passing. It's time for me to stop lying about who and what I am. A sovereign.
Something people seem to forget though, being outwardly alpha or aggressive is actually more of a defense mechanism that generally serves as a device to impress/intimidate other men,but is almost always a cover for insecurity. Simply being aware/sure of yourself internally without the need to 'flex' or seek outside validation from anyone, woman or man, is what I believe really gives a man a presence that makes women (not girls) go crazy.
Western masculinity and it's extreme yang principles are imbalanced.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wbzeqFcpGQQ
Look at Joon, the last guy at 2:39, I believe this is what a more balanced human being that's in touch with the feminine aspect is like. I'm certain that he's not outwardly someone that feels the need to 'act tough', nor is he 'beta' in any sense. But it's undeniable Joon is one of those guys that women flock too.
I guess what i'm saying is, you're strong and you know it. People will test you because they aren't confident of their own strength, it makes no sense for you to play into the insecurity game with them.
