Attract Your Perfect Wife

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A man has to properly vet a woman for at least 12 months before considering to upgrade her to girlfriend status.  After that about 5 years of vetting to become a wife.  Most men obviously don't do this which is why they're getting destroyed in divorce like they do.

So having a child first that's not actually a bad thing as it will keep her around to try to earn marriage.  Just don't marry her right away just cause she's had a child.  You still have to properly vet her and she has to earn the title of your wife.

There are so many derogatory implications in what you write... You think you’re certain you’ve got it all figured out, don’t you?

I see absolutely no derogatory implications in what he wrote at all. All I see is you attacking a man who is suggesting that you have self respect and don't just jump into it. I see enough of that on facebook and the media without having to see it here.

Thank you Benjamin.  It shows you have some sense of dating and relationships for you to say that.  Unfortunately most men don't.

IceAlive, Studies show that you are 20% less likely to divorce if you date a woman for 2 years before marriage, 39% less likely to divorce if you date her for 3 years or more.  

So considering the divorce rate is 75% for first marriages and over 80% for 2nd marriages you better believe that you need to vet a woman for a long time before you even consider getting marriage.  Just do know that stats show 8 out of 10 divorces are initiated by women.

So for any man to ignore these stats and get into a government contract with a woman which could basically destroy their life and take half of all they got in a divorce that's just stupid.

I do recommend you listen to Coach Greg Adams on youtube he is saving men's lives everyday

search for "The Long Lasting Effects of Divorce by Coach Greg Adams on youtube or click below.  It's only facts you have to know what you're getting into it's not a joke.

The Long Lasting Effects of Divorce on men

I dated my wife 3 years before engagement, and 4 before getting married.  I also made sure that she made WAY more money than me...If we get divorced, it's her who'll be paying ME. HAHAHA! Maybe THAT'S why we're going on almost 10 years?! 

You did it way better than most men.  Congrats on being smart.