Attract Your Perfect Wife

[Benjamin]

Well maybe it works the other way... Have kids live happily and then at last you make her you married wife..

I mean everything looks good... So.. Who knows

A man has to properly vet a woman for at least 12 months before considering to upgrade her to girlfriend status.  After that about 5 years of vetting to become a wife.  Most men obviously don't do this which is why they're getting destroyed in divorce like they do.

So having a child first that's not actually a bad thing as it will keep her around to try to earn marriage.  Just don't marry her right away just cause she's had a child.  You still have to properly vet her and she has to earn the title of your wife.

There are so many derogatory implications in what you write... You think you’re certain you’ve got it all figured out, don’t you?

I see absolutely no derogatory implications in what he wrote at all. All I see is you attacking a man who is suggesting that you have self respect and don't just jump into it. I see enough of that on facebook and the media without having to see it here.