02-12-2021, 11:24 PM
(02-12-2021, 02:39 AM)AbundanceCH Wrote:(02-12-2021, 12:21 AM)Zane Wrote: Well maybe it works the other way... Have kids live happily and then at last you make her you married wife..A man has to properly vet a woman for at least 12 months before considering to upgrade her to girlfriend status. After that about 5 years of vetting to become a wife. Most men obviously don't do this which is why they're getting destroyed in divorce like they do.
I mean everything looks good... So.. Who knows
So having a child first that's not actually a bad thing as it will keep her around to try to earn marriage. Just don't marry her right away just cause she's had a child. You still have to properly vet her and she has to earn the title of your wife.
There are so many derogatory implications in what you write... You think you’re certain you’ve got it all figured out, don’t you?