Ampers&d: The Year of the Alpha (Male 6.0)

[Ampersnd]

Totally women have options. They can choose from 500,000 beta males, or a handful of alphas like me. Where's the issue?

I'm not saying I'm approaching women as much as I could, I just think even if I WAS, they'd STILL be turned off me despite that confidence. It just seems to be the way.

Just now I was talking to a girl on POF. She stopped replying after I replied to her second message. like wtf is going on anyhow?

I feel like I can't do anything about it because I don't know what 'it' is.

Not trying to dump this on you, just saying it like it is.

Online, she only has your words, not your presence, so it may be hard to interpret. Even the lowliest of men can write some cocky-funny text and hit 'Send'. Maybe she got bored and went to go get a sandwich.

I don't know this for a fact, but in person, my bet is that women are reading you, and finding something about you that you're not even aware of (incongruence), and that turns them away. I have this too. Neither you nor I know our next level of confidence, but perhaps that involves us finding and clearing away in-congruency by owning up to it.

Yeah, it's not a glamorous answer, but it's a path that takes 100% responsibility.

Also, I used to think I was an 'Alpha' last year, the year before that, at the start of university, and even back in high school. Most of that time, I was the most beta beta-male there could be, trying to push buttons, and spit game. But I THOUGHT I WAS ALPHA. But with subliminals, I'm steadily improving. So I can't completely call myself an 'Alpha Male' even after running 2 major subliminals, since I don't even know what the next level is from my current standing. My suggestion is that you might not be the 100% alpha male quite yet.