01-14-2015, 05:19 AM
(01-13-2015, 07:50 PM)DanAmerson Wrote: Don't worry, guys. I'm not gay. But maybe I'm holding back the part of my identity which communicates: "I'm a straight man" to women. If a very large portion of women are showing just about 0 attraction to me, it's very clear that I'm communicating the wrong things. Maybe if I remind myself that "I love women" and "I love sex and putting my penis into pussy", perhaps that will come through.
It could even be another link; I don't know what I don't know (unconscious competence), therefore, it's difficult to pinpoint it.
I totally get this as well. I'm not sure what communicates the straight vibes other than being a jerk 9which is unacceptable to me), but I have noticed that when you're more in touch with your and everyone's emotions, the gay stories start to pop up. Like people sense you sensing in a way that isn't "normal". Still, women usually like this.