11-02-2014, 04:23 AM
(10-31-2014, 11:07 PM)Shannon Wrote: No matter how good a man is with women, he will always encounter some women who are just random, flaky, not sufficiently compatible, repressed, or who take a while to warm up. You can't get upset over stuff like that. Putting that much interest in any one woman tells you that you still have work to do.
I don't think it's putting a lot of interest in one woman that Dan was doing but rather that after all the effort he's making with this SM thing and the cost of the sub it must seem to him like he hasn't made any progress at all. I've had guys 'steal away' women I was talking to and I can tell you it's demeaning enough. If I had been using something like SM then I would have felt worse.