AYP Boyfriend Journal

[cashmerecat]

To be honest I was somewhat disappointed, because it felt so right with him. But I guess that's also the sub working on attracting better matches into my life. There are more coming in! I can feel it

[risingwarrior]

Hey cashmerecat...I'm on the same boat as you, except that I am a guy using "Attract your perfect girlfriend". I've had not had the manifestation yet; however, I've seen a lot of "almosts" happen to me: Like instant connection with someone, but the situation isn't perfect. But then, someone else comes along. Also, I've seen people coming back from the past out of nowhere. I'd advise you to keep going no matter what. I think these "almosts" are like shots fired but not hitting the target. The sub, if given enough time I believe, will hit the target and bring us our perfect match. Good luck and keep going

[Life]

Hey cashmerecat or anyone who's using an Ayp. Did u put a lot of thought in planning which manifest sub you were going to use or was it more "spur of the moment"

[cashmerecat]

@risingwarrior: Thank you, I certainly hope so. The other day when I was meditating, a thought came to me: anything can manifest if given enough energy.

@FrankUnderwood: I didn't plan it, I started it because that's what I want in life now

[cashmerecat]

I counted the days wrongly, today is day 26. Not sure if it's just my imagination, but it looks to me that my facial features have changed slightly :O I've always looked much younger than my age, but now even more so? Now I look a bit more...child-like and innocent? And I'm still quite young so it's not something I actively put energy into to manifest. Went on dates with 2 different guys recently and they both commented that I have a baby face.

Since that guy told me he just wanted to be friends, I have been a bit more distant. Not playing games, just don't want to get too emotionally attached. Now he's initiating contact everyday...not sure what that means.

[4Kingdoms]

Since that guy told me he just wanted to be friends, I have been a bit more distant. Not playing games, just don't want to get too emotionally attached. Now he's initiating contact everyday...not sure what that means.

I understand what you mean by not wanting to get too emotionally attached. He probably didn't think you were going to distance yourself when he told you he just wanted to be friends. Maybe you distanced yourself too quickly?

Just say hi, keep it brief, tell him you're busy. He will get the hint. Don't burn bridges, you might need his help one day and if you don't... he will have happy thoughts whenever he thinks of you.

And this time, I don't have to try to have sex with him to manipulate him into liking me/staying with me lol.

So happy for you that you didn't use sex to manipulate him. Feels great!!! Doesn't it??!!

[cashmerecat]

Just a quick update to say that after a few things happened, that guy who told me he just wanted to be friends is now asking me out, saying he misses me, that we have something special... As for whether he will be the "perfect boyfriend", it is way too soon to know. It's interesting this time because although I still like him, I'm not crazy about him. We'll see what happens next...

[Athena]

It really is interesting. Really excited for you to hear about this.
I know what you mean a little bit actually.
Keep us posted.

[cashmerecat]

I am having an amazing connection with this person and we complement each other beautifully..!!

[Shawn]

I am having an amazing connection with this person and we complement each other beautifully..!!

Wow, good to hear.

[risingwarrior]

@cashmerecat How much time has it passed since you first started listening?

[cashmerecat]

Not so good news, he's back on the "not ready for a committed relationship" again so we're back to being friends. Somehow it feels like it's not over though. I'll just trust in my intuition.

@cashmerecat How much time has it passed since you first started listening?

I ran it for 63 days before taking a break, this is my 2nd run and it's been 41 days.

[Shawn]

Well, you are running this sub for about three months. Maybe it takes more than three months for him to manifest into your life AND become ready for a relationship. Only the time will tell...

[risingwarrior]

Hang in there, I think this takes a lot more time and patience than any of the other subs..Speaking from my own experience with AYPG