07-07-2021, 04:55 PM
(07-07-2021, 12:52 PM)tolgaocal80 Wrote: seems like AM doesn't allow me to be depressed or feel desperate about my future or life.
I see lots of girls around the town but I don't feel the need to look at them, they are looking at me with curious eyes though.
I decided to change my checklist for a woman beacuse I think my all wants about women is causing me to stop because of the idea I didn't attracted to them or they are not on my ligue (upper or lower) is a big lie.
I am wasting my time to find an ideal girl which is never exists. also I am not that good (like a perfect male)
I was thinking back than that I am a high value person so I never date low value girls (a complete false idea), a long ago I realized that every people is equal regardless or their gender, age etc. So my view of world changed a lot for good. I think I dont have any inferiority complex or superiority complex now.
now the idea of accepting women is sounds agrreable to me rather than fearfull or resentfull.
Hey man, I've felt the same in the past in different periods of my life.
The I'm out of their league, I'm better than them mentality creates a disconnect with others because you are thinking about it. Holding onto it.
What if you already had as many girls as you liked, how would you think and feel then?
Probably much more carefree about who's better than who.
I think you'll like my recent thread with AM
https://subliminal-talk.com/Thread-Back-...LionMonkey
It's actually a lot similar to your thoughts and I think it will be helpful for some perspective.
-LM
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.