08-10-2017, 04:30 AM
Thanks guys, I admit when I was posting that I nearly didn't.. and then I nearly deleted it because I was scared how it would be taken. So i'm glad you connected with it too.
Good point, they have been pretty supportive of it in the past like when letters were exchanged years ago. But talking to someone tonight I thought of this aswell. My communication with them isn't totally open but I also feel meeting my biological mum and getting those things out there will help my relationship with my adoptive parents too.
I plan to tomorrow night, it's good that I finally connected with the fact that yes she is in pain over it too.
Yep.. I said to someone the other day that I haven't noticed the hoped results with girls and sex, or even seeing heaps of interest past them being more friendly when I talk to them.
BUT it leading me to these core wounded emotions and working on healing them... that is valuable.
Quote:I'd just make sure the adoptive parents know it's not got anything to do with not loving them or anything. They might take it wrong.
Good point, they have been pretty supportive of it in the past like when letters were exchanged years ago. But talking to someone tonight I thought of this aswell. My communication with them isn't totally open but I also feel meeting my biological mum and getting those things out there will help my relationship with my adoptive parents too.
Quote:I think you should make the call Brother. It will heal you and it will heal her.
I plan to tomorrow night, it's good that I finally connected with the fact that yes she is in pain over it too.
Quote:What a gigantic hurdle to overcome, and for a program like DMSI to finally help get you there!?
Yep.. I said to someone the other day that I haven't noticed the hoped results with girls and sex, or even seeing heaps of interest past them being more friendly when I talk to them.
BUT it leading me to these core wounded emotions and working on healing them... that is valuable.
