07-29-2017, 06:01 AM
(07-29-2017, 05:26 AM)Benjamin Wrote: At some stage I will integrate it back in, with the intent of doing it the Social Heartistry (John Cooper) way.
A brief example of this today, mainly feeling weird in the shopping centre when I seen girls. Then I went to get some incense and 2 girls were looking at it. And I naturally just talked to them and asked them if there's anything good and they got me to smell a few of them and it was just natural.
That is the autonomy John Cooper is talking about.. how you're going about what you're doing and maybe or maybe not if it comes up just talk to a girl from your natural expression because you're inspired to.
NOT standing around, stressing, walking up and down just hoping to come across a girl with all the pua concepts trapping you in a cage, making you more stressed, needy and anxious and shutting you down.
That might not make sense to you if you haven't read or watched his material or you aren't near the same place I am at the moment.. but what he's talking about has become very clear to me where a year ago I just didn't 'get' it.
Hmm, I don't know. Maybe a bit of both, because looking at that statement I wrote there is an element of truth to it.
But then something funny is that DMSI and the healing has possibly lead me to realize that.. hmm.
Yeah, I'm familiar with some of John's stuff, read through his book but not much more. I think his stuff is definitely crucial if you have gone through any "hardcore PUA stuff" and gotten into their kind of thing.
Yeah, when I said "get into settings where you meet girls" I was definitely not recommending you go into it from the hunter perspective. If you have read "End Game" by Attraction Institute, I would say that you go from the creating perspective. If you haven't read that book, I recommend it. But if I were to explain it, in other words. I would say provider perspective. Not the "beta male provider". But the one where you provide to your environment good feelings, provide it with adventure, where you as a male provide a woman the kind of feelings only a man can give her.
I just don't think you should withhold yourself from interacting with women if it's what you genuinely want. Regardless if you're in "healing mode" or not. - That's what I was trying to say
I definitely think there's some truth to it, I've had the feelings myself. But the program is to make ME sexually irresistible and get girls to approach ME. The means to that end is the aura (among else). But the whole program still focuses on ME. That's the only consistent thing in these subliminals; ME, Myself and I. Regardless if there's an aura involved or not it has to do with me, and that's what attracts the other people. MY aura coming from MY body and MY mind.
If I were to stop running DMSI right now (and wait 30 days) I'm convinced I wouldn't get the same results from women I get today. But what I am also certain on is that I with much greater ease will be able to attract the kind of women I want than before DMSI. The instructions from DMSI about the aura gives you an upper-hand as long you're using it. But it's still ME that's attracting these women, regardless if I have an aura of sexiness surrounding me or not.
