Quote:Pulling this post up as a reminder. It'd be interesting to see how you feel after you get to that date. Just a little over two more months to go...
Thanks man, though I said that i'm still putting it on each night.. going through the process. But it helps to recommit to that date atleast.
Quote:Your feelings of changing to E2 is resistance, quite certain of it.
Hmm makes sense since DMSI is what has got me working on the core issues.
Quote:Keep going with your inner bonding thing, but I would also say to start again with putting yourself in situations with girls and act like you have already overcome the abandonment issues.
I will at some stage, and as I said still talk to some girls but without any 'intent' for the moment. Even doing that has allowed more to come up to work on, and just being around girls or out in public has too.
At some stage I will integrate it back in, with the intent of doing it the Social Heartistry (John Cooper) way.
A brief example of this today, mainly feeling weird in the shopping centre when I seen girls. Then I went to get some incense and 2 girls were looking at it. And I naturally just talked to them and asked them if there's anything good and they got me to smell a few of them and it was just natural.
That is the autonomy John Cooper is talking about.. how you're going about what you're doing and maybe or maybe not if it comes up just talk to a girl from your natural expression because you're inspired to.
NOT standing around, stressing, walking up and down just hoping to come across a girl with all the pua concepts trapping you in a cage, making you more stressed, needy and anxious and shutting you down.
That might not make sense to you if you haven't read or watched his material or you aren't near the same place I am at the moment.. but what he's talking about has become very clear to me where a year ago I just didn't 'get' it.
Quote:The thoughts coming up about "you're not gonna be good enough without DMSI" is also resistance which I think you already figured out, but just wanted to point it out anyway.
Hmm, I don't know. Maybe a bit of both, because looking at that statement I wrote there is an element of truth to it.
But then something funny is that DMSI and the healing has possibly lead me to realize that.. hmm.
