05-30-2016, 04:04 PM
(05-30-2016, 03:40 PM)AbundanceCH Wrote: CatMan, you need to start going salsa dancing. Go out there and interact with women on a regular basis like salsa dancing will make you do and i'm sure whatever programming you got from the subs will reveal itself. Sometimes subs are not enough you just need to do those things that will put you up close and personal with women
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Thanks for the words, man! I mean that.
In my case, it isn't a social issue as I'm out in environments with lots of attractive women at least once a week for several hours. It's an issue of not believing it's possible, maybe of deservedness. I am out with them, having fun, flirting, kino all of that, but I still don't believe it's possible for me to bed them or date them for some reason. I guess it's like the chicken and the egg, I need proof of it happening to help me counter all the instances of it not happening, to at least tell me it's possible. But, without belief in myself making it possible, it isn't likely to happen maybe as that confidence or lack thereof will show somehow and turn them off. I can easily look like a guy who's popular with girls, guys out at places often come up to me and ask me how I do it and why do they come over to me often and fight over talking to me etc., but they don't know I've never even had a real date, let alone have sex. There's probably GSF in there too, and I know for a fact there's a lot of pain and failure in the past with girls and zero success to empower me, and especially toxic shame I'm learning recently. And a latent belief in the background that subs may not solve my issues, whatever they are.
I think we're venturing into territory that will leave us disappointed if we are hoping this sub will transform us into Cristiano Ronaldos, is all. Let the chips fall where they may.