Yo Clansy!
Great work man! I can relate to how it feels to be jealous of someone else's success even if they are a total dickhead. I think pretty much everyone through this journey goes through it, I did a lot years ago too. One thing I will say is focus on you and you alone.
What one guy does doesn't mean that you have to emulate or be him... And you don't want to be him. The mindset you will get may come across to some others as an asshole or jerk just because you're pretty selfish with yourself... others may stick to you like glue.
Women I have dated have bitched and complained about me to their friends, called me a kid, a dick, irresponsible, everything but that's just because I won't let them have power over me and I do things that I want to do without any care of things I don't. At the end of the day they still pick up the phone immediately when you call or text and always say Yes to meet
But, like you, I also hated pretty much every guy my age when I was 20-21 and still today, I'm just a very very non-conformist / lone wolf type of guy.
In some situations people like that can let their ego get to them. The money and social value can really get out of hand for some, but I don't think he has any idea what he is doing to get women.
Also, I've lost and gained social circles over the years, it's all a part of growing and developing this new mindset but also growing up.
Seems like you and Catman are around the same spot and just the other day he also was having a lot of negative thoughts about the problem. I haven't done SM in quite a long time but I do remember it always being up/down and questioning if it'd do anything. Usually, when you have those thoughts it's right before you get a good taste that it does work. Just hang in there and finish it up, I think you'll be happy after you did
As for restarting... Personally, I think you should finish, do Alpha Male again, then do SM again. Give yourself a break and focus on strengthening your foundation some more. I find it's great to do Alpha Male at least about once a year.
Great work man! I can relate to how it feels to be jealous of someone else's success even if they are a total dickhead. I think pretty much everyone through this journey goes through it, I did a lot years ago too. One thing I will say is focus on you and you alone.
What one guy does doesn't mean that you have to emulate or be him... And you don't want to be him. The mindset you will get may come across to some others as an asshole or jerk just because you're pretty selfish with yourself... others may stick to you like glue.
Women I have dated have bitched and complained about me to their friends, called me a kid, a dick, irresponsible, everything but that's just because I won't let them have power over me and I do things that I want to do without any care of things I don't. At the end of the day they still pick up the phone immediately when you call or text and always say Yes to meet
But, like you, I also hated pretty much every guy my age when I was 20-21 and still today, I'm just a very very non-conformist / lone wolf type of guy.In some situations people like that can let their ego get to them. The money and social value can really get out of hand for some, but I don't think he has any idea what he is doing to get women.
Also, I've lost and gained social circles over the years, it's all a part of growing and developing this new mindset but also growing up.
Seems like you and Catman are around the same spot and just the other day he also was having a lot of negative thoughts about the problem. I haven't done SM in quite a long time but I do remember it always being up/down and questioning if it'd do anything. Usually, when you have those thoughts it's right before you get a good taste that it does work. Just hang in there and finish it up, I think you'll be happy after you did
As for restarting... Personally, I think you should finish, do Alpha Male again, then do SM again. Give yourself a break and focus on strengthening your foundation some more. I find it's great to do Alpha Male at least about once a year.
