12-07-2015, 07:01 PM
Glad you're okay.
Awesome that you're approaching, that is a big step. So before WM you weren't doing it at all for years? That is a good sign, especially for me in that I have done approaches now and then but not fully got over the fear, so hopefully WM does that.
The weird pattern for me is after ages I hit a point where I start approaching, then I do TONS of them for a month or two then the fear gets even worse and stops me again. The last time I did it was Stage 2 of AM6 and i've not done much since.
Though saying that with WM2 I technically HAVE talked to some girls randomly but it's felt more natural.. but I half don't see it as an approach because i'm not going direct and it's not consistent.
Though interestingly if I look at the stage descriptions (from the original WM) it doesn't actually really deal with approaching until Stage 3. And after a few weeks on Stage 1 i've been more naturally talking to girls because of the negativity clearing shifts.. so I look forward to the later stages
Awesome that you're approaching, that is a big step. So before WM you weren't doing it at all for years? That is a good sign, especially for me in that I have done approaches now and then but not fully got over the fear, so hopefully WM does that.
The weird pattern for me is after ages I hit a point where I start approaching, then I do TONS of them for a month or two then the fear gets even worse and stops me again. The last time I did it was Stage 2 of AM6 and i've not done much since.
Though saying that with WM2 I technically HAVE talked to some girls randomly but it's felt more natural.. but I half don't see it as an approach because i'm not going direct and it's not consistent.
Though interestingly if I look at the stage descriptions (from the original WM) it doesn't actually really deal with approaching until Stage 3. And after a few weeks on Stage 1 i've been more naturally talking to girls because of the negativity clearing shifts.. so I look forward to the later stages