(12-19-2018, 09:30 PM)AriGold Wrote: Jake, two questions:
- Which of the subliminals did you use according to the instruction and for the required amount of time (90 days)?
- Could it be that the same excuses you have now are the excuses you use to procrastinate? (A lot of travel, ...) The answer to this question is for you, maybe it helps to see things in a different light, maybe it's completely irrelevant.
Anyway, I wish you success with the subliminals.
In your shoes I would have used AM6 to get rid of the victim mentality because I see you looking outside for people to make decisions for you and be responsible for your life. AM6 should change that.
Hi AriGold
1) None, the longest I have been on a sub is this one. Prior to this I would use a sub and then since it was told to me that I am stonewalling and a more powerful sub is needed I would change to another sub, to forgo the money back and in the hope of executing. The only sub I got a refund for if I recall correctly was the first version of the MLS 5.5, before it was corrected and re-released. I was then on DMSI 3.2 where I was told it would work on healing and clearing like a sledgehammer compared to E2.
On E2 I was becoming lazy which was further compounding my lack of action IRL, and thus I had to move fast. Now with FRM I still havent seen the results, so as Shannon has said to someone else I think it was Josh, perhaps 3 months are still needed or longer so it is what it is and as this UMOP and USLM are more catered for my needs ill remain on these subs and follow the instructions and hope I execute soon. Fingers crossed!
2) Thank you for helping. The travel isnt the reason, its an issue but the reason I procrastinate when it comes to studying has been the case since I was 18 or maybe even before then. With other goals, I have usually started off with much enthusiasm only to lose that drive. According so some behaviour experts in the world, this means we use our short lived will power to get started but motivation is a slow and steady long drive that keeps you going. I seem to perhaps have that in tiny amounts at the start too.
I know one habit of mine or one key issue I have self-analysed is to be easily disturbed from my goals or distracted when an obstacle comes my way but thats when I get started on a goal. At other times when im on a goal sometimes I am in that zone and get moving. So its up and down.
Another issue is I dont say no to my friends or family. To family it becomes a big issue and an argument, and to friends its sometimes seen as being unsociable, unfriendly, etc. I can and do say no but I try to be polite otherwise I end up being distracted and though i feel I need to be more self-centred and focused on me, its then I end up being alone and procrastinating.
Poor diet is an issue ive fixed in the past to terrible side effects which I havent been able to as yet but working on fixing this xmas break - so the lack of energy leads to procrastination too.
However the excuses I have come to use for not being able to use the subs consistently whenever I have not been able to, have been due to my insomnia, or at times an active social life having been back at uni, or indeed my procrastination itself causing me not to want to get to bed early. I also have self sabotage too for sure!
thank you
OF3 5.75.7G 13/15Vol
1L-2O/3OF; (1L-2/2 5/6); (2L 19/6); (3L 27/6); (4L 9/7); (H4L 25/7)
W 19 May
MLS 5.5G: ≈70days x2, IYGSH: 54, E2: 78+48, DMSI 3.2: 56 & 22, UMOP1: 57+UMOP2: 33 = 90+10 US v12/15=100, OF: 45, OF2: 56days
1L-2O/3OF; (1L-2/2 5/6); (2L 19/6); (3L 27/6); (4L 9/7); (H4L 25/7)
W 19 May
MLS 5.5G: ≈70days x2, IYGSH: 54, E2: 78+48, DMSI 3.2: 56 & 22, UMOP1: 57+UMOP2: 33 = 90+10 US v12/15=100, OF: 45, OF2: 56days