12-08-2018, 06:47 AM
(12-07-2018, 11:20 PM)FluffyBunny Wrote:(12-07-2018, 05:26 PM)Shannon Wrote:(12-07-2018, 02:58 PM)FluffyBunny Wrote:(12-07-2018, 02:48 PM)Shannon Wrote:(12-07-2018, 02:42 PM)FluffyBunny Wrote: Since its mostly improvements, in theory, the girls I have attracted into my life on 3.2 should find it more attractive and stay around?
If they don't, they will be replaced with better options.
Oh ic. just recently i have attracted a girl i really like. The ones in the past few months i have attracted are good looking but was not a girl i see myself dating long term.
Me and her went out first time yesterday went well, and I'm hoping to see her again, that's why i was a bit concerned switching to 3.3. At the moment i can't see any girl that would be better than her hahaha. i really like her genuine and kind personality.
When I found my GF, I stopped using DMSI. I found the one I want to keep, so attracting others isn't a good idea. It may be worth doing nothing different and seeing if you have her become a serious relationship, and then decide what to do.
Is it because girls usually are more insecure and when you are too sexually attractive she might feel too unsafe with you to stay in the relationship??
In this case, the one I found was very obviously a once-in-a-lifetime gem, and I was not about to throw that away to have multiple females who somewhat worked for me, when I could have one who really made me happy.
Quote:But is it not also good to keep your gf on her toes? like her seeing you are attractive and other girls are interested in you.
For me, if i had a Gf and other girls are attracted to me i would never act on it. but would be good for my gf to see i am still attractive to other females?
You're asking a question to which the answer differs for every man, and every woman he dates. In my case, my GF is well aware that I get interest and attention from other females all the time, but I don't think it would matter, because she's not looking. She's fully satisfied by me and what I bring to the table, and since it's mutual, we don't need to play games like that. That sort of games are only necessary when you're not fully satisfied with your partner, and/or you are dealing with certain personality types.
Quote:There was actually one girl i quite like that i wanted to go out with her, but she kept on saying i already have so many girls why bother with her...(i have pictures with many other girls on social media) in the end, i wasn't able to get her out. Is there anything you would suggest for this to balance out?
If you're going to go after many females instead of one, you have to be prepared for the fact that a lot of them will have that set as "out of bounds behavior" and auto-reject you. A lot of them will auto-reject you because they are too insecure or low self esteem to deal with it. It is best in that case to simply let the chips fall where they may and stop trying. If you still want to get her, then you must be very subtle about slowly but surely showing her why you are so high value that she needs to date you regardless. Depending on the woman, this requires some incredible and long term displays of extremely high value. Most guys will do better to just let the chips fall where they may and immediately friend zone any woman who doesn't go along with your choices.
Quote:Right now i have just gone out with her once so she's nowhere near my gf yet. but if she does what is the reason you suggest not running DMSI anymore? My main goal is to just find the one i want and keep her.
If she is important for you, it will quickly become apparent. I can't tell you if it;s a good or bad idea to switch to 3.3 because I don't yet know in the real world how it performs, but if you execute it, her reaction will be polarized into "Oh my gosh, I have to have him, he's so popular and sexy!" or "RUUUUNNNNNN!!!!"
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