09-21-2018, 01:48 PM
(09-21-2018, 07:52 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:"(09-21-2018, 05:30 AM)Shannon Wrote: That is certainly not a helpful belief system.
Which? That I'm resisting because women are killjoys or are you saying women being killjoys is a belief? I can assure you it's not. I've not come across a woman yet who wasn't weird in a way that didn't kill my mood in some regard.
How you perceive the world around you is based on what you believe to be true. Your frame of reference. If your frame of reference is, "All women are a pain in the ass to deal with.", guess what you experience? This is in large part why we say... what you believe, you will achieve.
So it looks to me like you have that frame of reference based on beliefs you hold, based on past experiences, thus attracting to you what you experienced in the past and creating a feedback loop. And of course you don't realize this, or that you have those beliefs, or that what you believe is what you attune yourself to, attract and experience.
I have been through something similar. I saw how drastically different the women I began attracting were after I changed my base beliefs and the resulting frame of reference.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!