08-09-2018, 06:05 PM
(08-09-2018, 03:38 PM)josh84 Wrote: Thankyou for your response shannon, i believe fear is what is holding me back from executing the script as i am someone that cant do things perfectly wont do things which is a bad way to live and its deffinately no way to be in a relationship since cant be perfect or make things go perfectly since one woman might like one thing another might not like that same thing.
Perfectionism is a fear based response. If you believe you can't do it perfectly, then refusing to do it is an effort to avoid criticism or "not being good enough" which is perceived as a huge threat to you in some way and for some reason. But, if you never allow yourself to make mistakes, you will never allow yourself to learn how not to make mistakes, or to succeed. Consider:
Quote:I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work.
Thomas A. Edison
Quote:Failure is simply the opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently.
Henry Ford
Quote:You build on failure. You use it as a stepping stone. Close the door on the past. You don't try to forget the mistakes, but you don't dwell on it. You don't let it have any of your energy, or any of your time, or any of your space.
Johnny Cash
Quote:Success consists of going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm. Winston Churchill
Quote:It's fine to celebrate success but it is more important to heed the lessons of failure. Bill Gates
Quote:Without failure there is no achievement. John C. Maxwell
Quote:There is no innovation and creativity without failure. Period. Brene Brown
Quote:It is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all, in which case you have failed by default. J. K. Rowling
Quote:You have to be able to accept failure to get better. LeBron James
Quote:Winning is great, sure, but if you are really going to do something in life, the secret is learning how to lose. Nobody goes undefeated all the time. If you can pick up after a crushing defeat, and go on to win again, you are going to be a champion someday. Wilma Rudolph
Quote:Failures, repeated failures, are finger posts on the road to achievement. One fails forward toward success. C. S. Lewis
Quote:A failure is not always a mistake, it may simply be the best one can do under the circumstances. The real mistake is to stop trying. B. F. Skinner
Quote:Never be afraid to fail. Failure is only a stepping stone to improvement. Never be overconfident because that will block your improvement. Tony Jaa
Quote:Do not be embarrassed by your failures, learn from them and start again. Richard Branson
Quote:Success is not the absence of failure; it's the persistence through failure. Aisha Tyler
Quote:Success is not built on success. It's built on failure. It's built on frustration. Sometimes its built on catastrophe. Sumner Redstone
Quote:Failure should be our teacher, not our undertaker. Failure is delay, not defeat. It is a temporary detour, not a dead end. Failure is something we can avoid only by saying nothing, doing nothing, and being nothing.
Denis Waitley
I think you get the point...
Quote:Hopefully fear modules in 3.3 will help me get past what holds me back and lets me execute but that side of me where if dont do things right dont do things at all is a problem.
That is the goal.
Quote:Its also why i work for myself instead of a 9-5 job if i fail to do things properly for myself only myself to blame but would feel bad for letting others down if working for someone else if not done properly.
All comes down to fear which im looking forward to your product helping me get past that.
As am I.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!