07-18-2018, 12:46 AM
Yesterday I was angry and upset at myself. As Ben already mentioned it may well have been fears coming to the surface.
I think it is human nature when we are afraid we like to argue, lash out or retreat. I am guilty of this as anyone. When anger builds up out of fear we will attempt to redirect this energy to anyone and everyone even on forums. Even here on the subforum people react when they fail to get the results they wanted.
It is vital that if you want to evolve and become a better adult. Take responsibility for your own actions. No one put a gun to your head and forced you to buy a product. If you still have problems you need to take responsibility and sort out your own issues and not blame someone else.
I decided to retreat and keep myself to myself. From the intellectual standpoint we all know that REAL men respond whereas children and animals react.
Today I felt good again. I have been going to another coffee shop recently and have seen a barrister who I fancy. When I walked in she looked at me then immediately started touching her face and said hello and gave me a big smile. This subtle body language cue said a lot as it wasn't the typical customer service smile but a woman who I feel finds me attractive.
I think it is human nature when we are afraid we like to argue, lash out or retreat. I am guilty of this as anyone. When anger builds up out of fear we will attempt to redirect this energy to anyone and everyone even on forums. Even here on the subforum people react when they fail to get the results they wanted.
It is vital that if you want to evolve and become a better adult. Take responsibility for your own actions. No one put a gun to your head and forced you to buy a product. If you still have problems you need to take responsibility and sort out your own issues and not blame someone else.
I decided to retreat and keep myself to myself. From the intellectual standpoint we all know that REAL men respond whereas children and animals react.
Today I felt good again. I have been going to another coffee shop recently and have seen a barrister who I fancy. When I walked in she looked at me then immediately started touching her face and said hello and gave me a big smile. This subtle body language cue said a lot as it wasn't the typical customer service smile but a woman who I feel finds me attractive.