06-11-2018, 01:49 PM
Shannon,
I believe that the ARA needs to be supremely beefed up.
I’ve noticed that when I’m very close to closing, like when it’s a sure thing and I’m 99% there I go into this state of anxiety/fear which doesn’t seem logical to me in the least bit, it’s very annoying and has been going on for a while now (I’ve had this even before DMSI). It usually involves stomach pains, the runs and/or feelings of constipation, sometimes my body will begin to shake involuntarily as if it’s freezing cold even when it’s very warm. When I push through this it usually leads me to ejaculating much earlier than I’d like- as if my body is screaming at me to finish and get out of there ASAP (even with a condom).
But when I’m drunk (and not even that drunk- think 4-6 shots or so) this all completely evaporates. I feel strong and in control and can go as long as I like- I actually hit a PR the other night at about 3 hrs in one round (around 5-7 shots of rum).
What is this? The reasoning/cause behind this has long eluded me and I just need to get rid of it already
Any input you can give me will be well appreciated.
I believe that the ARA needs to be supremely beefed up.
I’ve noticed that when I’m very close to closing, like when it’s a sure thing and I’m 99% there I go into this state of anxiety/fear which doesn’t seem logical to me in the least bit, it’s very annoying and has been going on for a while now (I’ve had this even before DMSI). It usually involves stomach pains, the runs and/or feelings of constipation, sometimes my body will begin to shake involuntarily as if it’s freezing cold even when it’s very warm. When I push through this it usually leads me to ejaculating much earlier than I’d like- as if my body is screaming at me to finish and get out of there ASAP (even with a condom).
But when I’m drunk (and not even that drunk- think 4-6 shots or so) this all completely evaporates. I feel strong and in control and can go as long as I like- I actually hit a PR the other night at about 3 hrs in one round (around 5-7 shots of rum).
What is this? The reasoning/cause behind this has long eluded me and I just need to get rid of it already
Any input you can give me will be well appreciated.