05-29-2018, 05:28 AM
(05-28-2018, 07:32 PM)MasterEnki Wrote: @Shannon
Thanks for your advice,
I have re-read your answers to my AYP questions.
It seems that I have nothing serious to worry about. If she (AYP manifestation(s)) is definitely attracted to me sexually, to the point of genuinely wanting it and enthusiastically consenting - Then logically, I shouldn’t have any problems legally or otherwise (ghosting, flaking, endless shittests that lead nowhere, etc).
That is correct.
Quote:I thought of a few more questions / points about AYP that I would like clarified,
The below is not a "few more questions". It's a book.
Quote:The 37yo woman I attracted who is legally ‘unable to consent’. Could she be a pre-manifestation of some sort?
No. No such thing as pre-manifestations.
Quote:Shannon, when you did your AYPs, did you have anyone who were likely pre-manifestations?
No. I did have echoes though. Multiple women with strikingly similar characteristics showing up all in a very short time.
Quote:Me and her have lunch together regularly at the cafe we met at. We also have gone swimming, and she invited me to her house for dinner. While having dinner (me, her and her guardian / carer) she literally asked her guardian / carer “Is (my name) sleeping over tonight?”. Her guardian / carer said “no” and explained the brain damage situation and so on. After that the guardian / carer told me bluntly to not come back (unless ‘37yo woman’ gains full capacity to consent in the future). I’m still seeing her in public places as ‘just friends’.
She is the first woman to mention sleeping together with me. It gave me a bit of a confidence boost. I’m so used to women rejecting me, saying that I’m ‘not her type’, friend zoning me, considering me to be non-sexual / unarousing / unsexy, etc. Finally having a woman view me as a potential lover is a new milestone for me. It really sucks that we can’t have a sexual relationship together.
I read the script for AYP FWB, and it has stuff about ‘making myself ready’. I’m contemplating that ‘37yo woman’ is part of the ‘making myself ready’ process. It also fills me with excitement that I could be executing properly, despite fears that are coming up.
I suppose it is possible that you could be in some way making yourself ready, but it seems unlikely to me.
Quote:Quote:Start looking to meet a woman with whom you could eventually have sex, and try to vet her for trustworthiness.
Quote:Sex can come later, if she passes the trustworthiness part of the equation
Should I filter every woman for trustworthiness. Even when using AYP?
You should never ever blindly trust a woman who has the power to put you in prison, destroy your reputation forever and sink you financially just because she wants to by lying or "changing her mind". Since that is currently true of all females, it applies to all females. Get to know her before you do anything. If she is a manifestation, it will flow smoothly and go quickly, but you should still do it.
Quote:If one starts filtering based on trustworthiness, would this change who the manifestation is (if she, the original manifestation target, is not trustworthy)?
Perfect means she will be perfect for the role she must play in your life.
Quote:Are all AYP manifestations (women manifestated due to AYP) trustworthy?
All manifestations are trustworthy enough to fulfill the role you ask them to be perfect for. Otherwise, logically, they could not be perfect for that role.
Quote:Quote:Start looking for a woman with whom you can have a relationship that could result in sex naturally, which would mean that she is trustworthy not only for sex but for sharing your heart with.
I assume that Friend-with-Benefits relationships naturally result in sex, especially with AYP manifestations.
Could you please eloberate / expand upon the ‘sharing your heart with’ part.
In my opinion, trying to lose your virginity to a FWB in this day and age is unwise. Friends come and go, and there is no necessity for any emotional connection whatsoever between friends. You should therefore, in my humble opinion, not be attempting to lose your virginity to a FWB.
The more deeply a woman bonds with you emotionally, the more open she will be to having sex with you, and the more you will be able to trust her to care about you and what happens to you. That means she will be less likely to hurt you than a FWB, in my experience. Therefore, I suggest that you find a relationship based on emotional connection first (romance) and then allow sex to make itself known as is natural from there.
Quote:I have read that FWB-type relationships are generally non-love / non-romantic relationships, just mostly sexual. What does ‘sharing your heart’ have to do with FWB-type relationships?
Do all AYP manifestations have a ‘share your heart’ element to them, including FWB and ‘sexual lover’?
See above.
Quote:Would a ‘heart chakra’ connection be likely (or guaranteed) with AYP manifestations, even the ones that focus exclusively on sex (i.e. ‘sexual lover’)?
If I manifest someone who just wants quick sex / booty-calls, etc. as my ‘perfect friend-with-benefits’ then I think I would be happy with that. On the other hand, if the ‘sharing heart with’ and/or romance is involved, I would also be happy with that.
Heart chakra is active to some degree in all emotional connections, but primarily in romantic/love connections. FWB is not going to significantly involve the heart chakra, if it is involved at all.
Quote:One more thing I recently read about AYPs that I found fascinating was the concept of ‘echoes’ / secondary manifestation ‘targets’.
Got me thinking,
If one was to consciously filter based on criteria, and somehow filtered out their primary manifestation. Would they still manifest an ‘echo’ as their manifestation (assuming they use the program for longer / long enough)?
If you do a manifestation correctly, there is no filtering out the responders. Any of them. I have seen cases where people ended up having three responders and all three got together in a hotel room at the same time and they had group sex.
Quote:I am keeping my mind open to all kinds of possibilities - young women, older women, white, black, Asian, etc., petite, chubby, blonde, brunette, redhead, black hair, and so on. I’m trying to do as minimal filtering as possible.
You don't filter, your subconscious does. I had no idea my "perfect lover" would be a Black Jamaican woman. I am not racist, but I just never had Black people around when I was growing up, so they were simply not part of what I was thinking. Totally caught me off guard, but I was open enough minded to try it, and it was definitely worth the price of admission, even though it didn't work out in the end.
Quote:Since FWBs tend to be polygamous / open relationship (according to what I read), I may try to manifest an ‘echo’ or two, once I’m comfortable with sex / had experience with my primary manifestation.
I have never seen a FWB be polyamorous, but they do tend to have a distant approach emotionally to sex and relationships. You don't try to manifest echoes, they are automatic; they happen at the same time as the primary manifestation. Repeating the process will get you a new primary responder, or re-start one or more of the old ones.
Quote:I’m already thinking ahead, that if this AYP goes well, I may run it again (or another one, such as ‘perfect sexual lover’) - this is likely to be in a couple of years time.
For now I’m focusing exclusively and only on AYP FWB.
Thanks
If I were in your shoes, I would be doing AYPSL or AYPRL.
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