(08-01-2018, 10:33 AM)thor2014 Wrote:(08-01-2018, 10:19 AM)AlphaRomeo Wrote: I can´t resist anymore...
I have seen quite many times guys mentioning about how tall/short they are in relation to attraction, where they are 5.7 (this number has popped up on few association, if my memory serves me) and say it´s difficult to attract girls being that "short". Just out of curiosity, in which country/continent do you live? I assume US since you use measure in feet. In many, if not most European countries 5.7 (and half) feet is almost exactly the average height of an adult man, same thing world wide. Quick search on US tells that it is pretty darn close to average as well, and in some parts of it 1 inch shorter. In Asia, that´s tall compared to average...in some places really tall.
I know many women like tall(er) guys, at least taller than themselves. If you are 5.7 you are taller than vast majority of women since on average women are shorter than men. I struggle to understand how the height is such an issue for many guys who are actually average height...or maybe it´s just a limiting belief on your own part? I could understand if you are really short it can be a factor...or TOO tall for that matter! Just wondering...
The majority of women prefer a man that is taller then themselves. Especially in the Balkans where it appears to be an accepted norm.
Place 10 tall women in room and ask a shorter guy to chat them all up. Introduce a tall guy into the room who is taller then any of the women. My bets are that the majority of the women would opt for dating the taller guy. There might be a few women who might opt to date the shorter guy. Lets assume that the tall and short guy are of equal looks and charisma.
The solution is to find a girl who is shorter then you too date.
I'm French AlphaRomeo.
To ask this question I guess you are on the positive side of the height spectrum or at least taller than average so you never had to face discrimination.
I admit it's less a problem in France than in other countries, but still Thor is saying right.
I too often see tall guys with meh face and personnalities going out with hotties and the only way they are pulling this is because they are 6 foots.
It instantly gives presence and people automatically associate a tons of positives qualities with tall people.
Take a small personn and give him 3 inches and he will do better in life in every aspect, money, hapiness, dating, works. There are a lot of studies about this to confirm.
Edit : + I don't know where you live but 5'7 is not average it is on the short side, 5'9 is average and I would probably not complain at this height.
And girls don't want guys to be taller than them, they want guys to be at least 2 inch taller, 5'10 is the neutral height where you won't hear any complaints nor positive comments for your height. Every inch below is a malus than you'll have to overcome with other aspects. (Lifestyle, Personnality, Good face, Lean body)
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