01-27-2016, 07:25 PM
(01-27-2016, 12:35 PM)Nox Wrote: Here's a frightening truth my friend. If you want to live a happy and fulfilling life...
YOU NEED TO DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT AND TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILITY FOR IT
Read that again, because it is terrifyingly true. The only place excuses exist is in your mind. You have no real excuses for anything. Culture, war, poverty, women, trauma, it doesn't matter what the reasons are that cause you to hurt. The only truth is that unless you take complete responsibility for yourself you will never find true Freedom. Blaming any event or situation will only put you under someone else. If you have the means in your life to post on this forum then you have the ability to accept complete control ol of your life.
You want to not get married and have sex with multiple hot women for the rest of your life? Quit complaining and do it.
You want to get married and live a life devoted to your partner? Quit complaining and do it.
You want to have a loving partner that Will allow you to engage in sexual relations with others? Quit complaining and do it.
But every one of those options requires you to choose and to work. Subs can help. Knowledge can help. Friends and family and associates can help. But YOU need to choose and decide and put forth the effort to make it happen. Whether that effort is physical, emotional or spiritual you still need to make/allow it to happen.
wait a minute, wait a minute, wait a minute......I am not complaining more like venting
Can you actually believe I am comfortable in my fear zone and afraid of change that I am not used to......that's why I know AM is going to be the ultimate challenge for me and yes I know I will resist.....
