01-26-2016, 08:15 PM
(01-26-2016, 07:27 PM)Guider Wrote: Your fears aren't safe. You're going to use subs and what acceptable to the "culture" will be irrelevant. It sound like you're asking what is safer for your current circumstances if that's so I would say use AYP. However if u don't want fears to control your life and discover a new world with much more bliss go for SM. If anyone else has anything to add please chime in
Thank you Guider for chiming in and adding.....like one side of me wants to experience that "life" of women being attracted to me.....so curious to feel what I never felt and to see how a life changer it can be for me like a "refreshing" feeling and to use it to show the women I've known that werent interested in me and wouldnt give the time of day or a rat's ass about me and then there were those women that were "fake" and gave me high 5's just to be "polite" and not seem unfriendly and truly you can tell it comes out unnatural like its so fake.....and make them interested in me cuz of who I became through the use of SM....and then be like "booyah B*tch I am finally the man you crave that you never thought you could witness". lol
then there is the culture "you are a sinner if you have premarital sex and will be shunned in hell for those impure thoughts or deeds".
But that's my dilemma.........