01-26-2016, 07:27 PM
Your fears aren't safe. You're going to use subs and what acceptable to the "culture" will be irrelevant. It sound like you're asking what is safer for your current circumstances if that's so I would say use AYP. However if u don't want fears to control your life and discover a new world with much more bliss go for SM. If anyone else has anything to add please chime in