(01-02-2016, 08:48 AM)LeonidasXVI Wrote:(01-02-2016, 08:38 AM)Dzemoo Wrote: i dont know with sm guys i am not interest after am6 in hooking up with many women anymore, i dont know with how much women i slept the past years but it didnt make me happy and being a player wasnt really that what i was looking for, its not like its shown in the moviesr
Can you expand on it? How is it Really like for you?
its really emotionaly destroying and draining you will fall in love automatically with many women you sleep and even after months or years you will remember them, you will feel guilt or anger for things you have done to them and things they did to you, you will feel betrayed and ashamed of course there will be times where you will feel above other men and that you are something better but this will not last long, often you will feel very lonely it will become like and addiction you wont be able to be happy or satisfied if you dont have new women you can seduce , you will get mysogynistic views about women and loose a lot of respect, you will loose faith in love and trust less and less , you will be very dependent on your success with them, its not that you get more secure the more you fuck its the opposite you will start to identify your self with the results you get and only value yourself on the number of women you have, also you will loose your ability to connect with one women, you will start to compare her with others and be less and less tolerant with little mistakes of her, somewhere along the lines you will get a void you cant fill thats were you will start to abuse drugs or alkohol to relax thats what i heard about the guys of rsd for example, they are heavy into cocain and anti depressants
also you will meet other women who are player by themself and you cant always win you will get betrayled and cheated thats where you start to cheat automaticaly on every girl to prevent being the one who is fooled, you will get jealous and mistrust your girl just because you are a cheater yourself, also there will be girls that want to bring you in jail or beaten up by other guys, their boyfriends husbands and so on....
sometimes you will abuse the girls just to feel better or ask crazy things from her tha hurt her just to show you that you mean something for her, sometimes you will feel dirty and used
its like 20% good things and 80% bad but some will still value these 20% more and take the 80% of bad things
thats just a small part of it