03-20-2011, 01:26 AM
AYD, I have a few points.
First, awesome job journaling these changes! You are really giving me good feedback, and I very much appreciate it. I appreciate it from everyone, naturally, but I have a tendency sometimes to get stuck in my own thread and working, or in the 18+ section, so I don't always see your thread here.
Second, the cleaning the garage thing was classic, and I laughed good at that one. Be thankful you have a wife who balances you out.
But, here's how I do things when I am with a woman in a long term relationship. Maybe this will help. It depends on her particular personality, too, naturally, but... when I wanted to be frisky with my last ex, and I didn't want to completely dominate her (which she loved), I would start by looking at her with my "Hungry Eyes". That look straight into her soul that says, "I'm going to get you." [Language has been watered down for general audiences.] Then I would hold that eye contact while forcibly pushing the intent at her. She would immediately know what I was saying, and then she would shiver, because she knew she was a little doe trapped and there was no escape from what was coming next. And she loved it. 
Then without breaking eye contact, I would slowly and very deliberately get up and walk over, staring that hunger into her soul the whole time, but not in an asking way... I wasn't asking, I was informing her. "You're my prey, and I am going to do XYZ with you, little prey." And when she would try to throw up some BS about "Oh, I have to iron my work uniform," I'd simply continue to stare and pin her down. Of course this requires cooperation, because you don't want to be forcing her unless she wants that illusion of being forced. But then I'd get very close to her and, never having blinked or broken eye contact, I would stare deeply into her eyes in a dominant "This is what's gonna happen" way and say in a half whisper half growl, "You're mine." Then I'd bite her neck in a sexy way that also backed up my assertion that she was mine.
And the way I did this, she was usually helpless and squirming by the time I got that far. And then I would either do what I was going to do right there, or I would drag her off to the room in which I planned to do what I was going to do, and from there I would continue on in progressively less appropriate activities for description in this section, but always did I maintain the "This is what's gonna happen" attitude, and it showed unwaveringly in my eyes, voice, body language, speech and actions. She loved it. LOVED it. Not every woman I ever dated liked that sort of thing, but she certainly did, and boy did I enjoy the electricity it created between us!
So next time you're doing googly eyes at the wife and she says go clean the garage, lock eyes with her for a moment. Then swagger over to her (but not too much swagger) and smirk a bit on the way over, as if to say, "Yeah, that's what YOU think." Then kiss her in a semi-aggressive way and say, "I think that can wait." Lead her off to your destination and show her that you are a passionate man, and rawr, that passion still burns within you.
Of course I don't know your wife or your relationship with her, but that's how I'd probably get past that sort of garage cleaning "blockage". Cleaning can wait.
And last but not least... Overcoming Procrastination is Type B. Should be fine with AM2011.
First, awesome job journaling these changes! You are really giving me good feedback, and I very much appreciate it. I appreciate it from everyone, naturally, but I have a tendency sometimes to get stuck in my own thread and working, or in the 18+ section, so I don't always see your thread here.
Second, the cleaning the garage thing was classic, and I laughed good at that one. Be thankful you have a wife who balances you out.
But, here's how I do things when I am with a woman in a long term relationship. Maybe this will help. It depends on her particular personality, too, naturally, but... when I wanted to be frisky with my last ex, and I didn't want to completely dominate her (which she loved), I would start by looking at her with my "Hungry Eyes". That look straight into her soul that says, "I'm going to get you." [Language has been watered down for general audiences.] Then I would hold that eye contact while forcibly pushing the intent at her. She would immediately know what I was saying, and then she would shiver, because she knew she was a little doe trapped and there was no escape from what was coming next. And she loved it. Then without breaking eye contact, I would slowly and very deliberately get up and walk over, staring that hunger into her soul the whole time, but not in an asking way... I wasn't asking, I was informing her. "You're my prey, and I am going to do XYZ with you, little prey." And when she would try to throw up some BS about "Oh, I have to iron my work uniform," I'd simply continue to stare and pin her down. Of course this requires cooperation, because you don't want to be forcing her unless she wants that illusion of being forced. But then I'd get very close to her and, never having blinked or broken eye contact, I would stare deeply into her eyes in a dominant "This is what's gonna happen" way and say in a half whisper half growl, "You're mine." Then I'd bite her neck in a sexy way that also backed up my assertion that she was mine.
And the way I did this, she was usually helpless and squirming by the time I got that far. And then I would either do what I was going to do right there, or I would drag her off to the room in which I planned to do what I was going to do, and from there I would continue on in progressively less appropriate activities for description in this section, but always did I maintain the "This is what's gonna happen" attitude, and it showed unwaveringly in my eyes, voice, body language, speech and actions. She loved it. LOVED it. Not every woman I ever dated liked that sort of thing, but she certainly did, and boy did I enjoy the electricity it created between us!
So next time you're doing googly eyes at the wife and she says go clean the garage, lock eyes with her for a moment. Then swagger over to her (but not too much swagger) and smirk a bit on the way over, as if to say, "Yeah, that's what YOU think." Then kiss her in a semi-aggressive way and say, "I think that can wait." Lead her off to your destination and show her that you are a passionate man, and rawr, that passion still burns within you.
Of course I don't know your wife or your relationship with her, but that's how I'd probably get past that sort of garage cleaning "blockage". Cleaning can wait.
And last but not least... Overcoming Procrastination is Type B. Should be fine with AM2011.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
