Adult Topic - SEX - why do you avoid it?

[waahbeta]

http://subliminal-talk.com/thread-6154-p...l#pid88698

To some extent it is indeed true that fear is our best and worse enemy to face, but this problem isn't applied to everyone.

Take sex for example. Some people are indeed don't want premarital sex. Not because of religion or any social construct that exist, but because they themselves do not want it. Thus it is prudent to learn your own self to really understands who you are. Don't conform with trend (fear, fear, fear).

Some people want to wait until marriage. I wanted to, then I found out I was born out of wedlock. I was pissed off at my Mother for making me believe she was a virgin until she got married. She did get married when I was two years old to a guy that was willing to adopt me and raise me as my own.

I would have started right away given there were a lot of promiscuous girls in my neighborhood. Then my fear of being too small held me back for a few months until it happened. Then I realized girls joke about penis size as much as guys joke about breast size.

My biggest issue for avoiding sex is body odor "down there". Somehow if that is an issue with the woman I am with, we shower together before sex. I use the shower as a form of foreplay.

There was one girl that was very clean, then she took a trip to Africa and fell in love with it's cuisine. The food she continued to eat gave her a unique body odor that I tried to tolerate and when I confronted her about it, she told me she enjoys the flavors and spices of the food too much to give it up. We parted. Just want to point out that diet plays a role in how we smell. A good example is smelling the scent of alcohol of someone that has had a few too many and starts to perspire.

Simply put from your post,
Ur first paragraph states that u kind of hate or dislike sex due to your personal grudge. Your last paragraph is jus an excuse for not having it ...
Yeah even I've read somewhere that u perspire the odour of alcohol. But that's just it.
Odour won't change with the change in diet.
It just changes the mouth smell say garlic or onion for example.
M an hyperhydrosis patient (excess sweat) , and searched a lot on sweat and the glands and that's for sure about the odour.
About the odour down there, maintain hygiene and it won't be smelly. Although the crotch/pubic area has an aroma/odour of its own.