Adult Topic - SEX - why do you avoid it?

[4Kingdoms]

http://subliminal-talk.com/thread-6154-p...l#pid88698

To some extent it is indeed true that fear is our best and worse enemy to face, but this problem isn't applied to everyone.

Take sex for example. Some people are indeed don't want premarital sex. Not because of religion or any social construct that exist, but because they themselves do not want it. Thus it is prudent to learn your own self to really understands who you are. Don't conform with trend (fear, fear, fear).

There was one girl that was very clean, then she took a trip to Africa and fell in love with it's cuisine. The food she continued to eat gave her a unique body odor that I tried to tolerate and when I confronted her about it, she told me she enjoys the flavors and spices of the food too much to give it up. We parted. Just want to point out that diet plays a role in how we smell. A good example is smelling the scent of alcohol of someone that has had a few too many and starts to perspire.

How you perceive an odor can change so easily, even to shit smell you can make you brain think it is enjoyable. Just go to the toilet and after some times you won't even the smell anymore. To reject someone because his new diet make him smell bad is an ignorant behavior to me. It's based on an emotional reaction that can be easily controlled, changed. Just think straight for some second is that really an intolerable smell or you are just overacting?

It's one reason people have such a reaction when they smell themselves down there in my opinion. They changed their natural reaction to body odor. Just look at the dogs and cat when they smell each other do they have stupid reaction like us. They are just smarter than us sometimes.

And I'm not even talking about pheromones here. Natural body odor are supposed to turn us on. My ex told me she loves dick smell and smelling armpit (it wasn't easy to make her admit that at first though)

This was like 20 or 30 years ago and we didn't love each other, we did it only for fun. She was doing someone else and I was doing someone else. So as much as I enjoyed the sex. I just found it incredible how several girls had little or no body odor 'down there' and this one had the same scent after showering.