10-21-2015, 02:31 PM
I'm with Shannon on the PUA stuff. The kind of woman I wanted - smart, beautiful, driven, caring - came into my life and fell in love with me because I was genuinely myself. I made her laugh, I made her feel good about herself, I opened her car door for her, I romanced her. It was all genuine, from the heart, and I didn't read a book on it. Now we're married, and life is good. Is it perfect? No. Would I have wanted a woman I had to "game" to marry? No. But if you want short-term, shallow relationships that revolve around the excitement of the "pickup," and that's your thing, then that's your thing.
CatMan - regarding the order of your next sub choice...If it is indeed deep-rooted fear that plagues you as Shannon suggests, might OF take care of your ED issue, thus rendering the need for OED unnecessary? It's a thought.
CatMan - regarding the order of your next sub choice...If it is indeed deep-rooted fear that plagues you as Shannon suggests, might OF take care of your ED issue, thus rendering the need for OED unnecessary? It's a thought.