09-26-2015, 02:15 PM
(09-26-2015, 11:03 AM)waahbeta Wrote: Yeah it was a common sense advise. But that's what ppl do as the last resort or they don't even do that.
I dunno about other countries, but in India, 'hey mom dad, we need to talk' is the final attempt.
It's ok if that didn't work out.
But from your 3 suggestions,
1. Wouldn't be right.
i. If u marry at the moment and make her suffer just to get freed from your parents. If u r selfish and don't care , yes, go for it.
ii) if u marry and divorce 6 months later. Yes. Go for it again if u r selfish.
iii) u get into a contract marriage. That would be best part as both of you are aware of the consequences.
2. I won't comment on it. It's your wish.
3. Don't even try. The more you try to scare them, they will more be attracted to you with a thought of improving you.
With your problem, I don't see AM helping you in that case.
Even though you become alpha, your parents love and care ain't going anywhere. But yes you can and definitely should try AM.
at the moment I'll suggest you, happiness n joy or be positive or remove negative within.
Hoping good for you.
P. S : even I am a a victim of those daily soap drama. Lol.
Trust me I have been pushing the fact that I have been hurting my mom's feeling reiterating the fact that I want to get my own apartment; over and over and over again but here's the interesting part.......In the last 15 years only since the last 1 year or so, I have been repeatedly telling her that I want to move or have plans moving......my reason to be repetitive is so that it can ingrain in her mind and she can accept it that it is going to happen sooner or later....and she can mentally be ready for it.....but she pulls out the card of manipulation and makes me feel bad of playing the card of "your dad has taken care of you and paid this and that for you all of these years and this is how you are gona repay us back....by leaving!??"
Right about now, I think I am on the verge that I am emotionless with them that the desperation to leave is more important to me now than caring for their emotions that I will emotionaly hurt their feelings if I left;
2 factors that will determine when and if I will leave; 1. $$$$ to support myself and 2. a girlfriend; the latter is not as important as the first one is......I'd reather leave with a girl that can be a part of my life than by myself but alone moving on is just as satisfying......
I disagree with you that i DO see AM helping me with that case, it makes you a bigger man and an adult; remember i am the adult child.....fostered into never sprouting because of the way that I have been mentally cultivated all of these years by my parents....AM 6, ASC, OF, are all powerful tools to push me forward into becoming the man I never could be.....let's not forget BASE either.....
oh and the daily soap dramas suck.........ugh i hate indian bollywood movies and soaps....so boring and cheesy....
