08-28-2015, 07:57 AM
(08-28-2015, 07:55 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: I agree with Jake and AfzalG. You can go through life blissfully ignorant and "being yourself" (like me for 25 sexless years) or you can actually make a change.
I find it odd, Ryan, that you say that taking action is lazy but listening to a sub is not. Seems like the opposite would be true.
Also, it's important to note that not all people have come from the same place. From what I read in Ryan's journals, all his problem was he thought he was unattractive. Once that changed, he was fine. Me? I always thought I was attractive, didn't change anything for me at all. All I'm doing is listening to the subs waiting for the supposed "aha! moment", but it isn't happening, so I decided to take matters into my own hands. I don't think this is stupid either, I think it's a good idea.
Anyone successful at anything will tell you that if something isn't working TRY SOMETHING ELSE, and if something IS working, why change it?
Keep makin' graphs, Sarge, keep makin' graphs
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