(07-16-2015, 10:03 AM)CatMan Wrote:(07-16-2015, 09:59 AM)apollolux Wrote:(07-16-2015, 09:54 AM)CatMan Wrote: ASC got rid of a lot of anxiety with me and girls and started helping me to get more attraction as a benefit of decreased anxiety and increased confidence.
If ASC can indeed help me with my social anxiety for the time being, then I look forward to making that my next sub.
Well EHPRA AND ASC can do it, but in different ways.
I still say the best course is to max out on EHPRA for 192 days, then ASC for at LEAST 96 days. You have money problems I think anyway? So, the decision is clear. They're both awesome and will have you ready for epicness in college if you commit to them fully like I describe. You can use ASC for longer than 96 as well, as long as you feel benefits you can continue and it'll be worthwhile.
You'll be head and shoulders above random clueless college guys...don't worry man lol. You'll stand out enough for girls, trust me...
While I agree that maxing out EPRHA then running ASC is best, the lack of motivation and productivity I feel while running EPRHA currently doesn't allow me to make the money I need to move forward, hence moving on to the next after only 32 days. I assure you, CatMan, that I want to run EPRHA for 192 days before anything else and if I didn't feel this persistent demotivation and lack of productivity I would, but getting work done is too important to my current physical health and well being (I have a work-for-housing deal with one of my long-time web dev clients) and for whatever reason running EPRHA is either causing or exacerbating this lack of motivation and very essential productivity.
I'm already head and shoulders above random clueless college guys, but I'm still too beta to "dominate" and not self-confident enough to take advantage of it and attract hot girls to me; among other things, I'm one of only ~200 or so computer science majors of 13,000 undergraduates in this branch of university AND president of the school's ACM chapter (college chapter of international computer club), and I found out one of my female classmates (who I once approached but met failure) loves my "TypoClock" Apple Dashboard widget (which she installed before she ever met me) which has had over 90,000 downloads and was an Apple Staff Pick.
A year and a half is not a lot of time left to improve myself enough where all I would need to do is "pick one undergrad and she's instantly mine," so to speak, and post-college I'm not confident I'll be around places where the number of hot (preferably single) girls is anywhere near as high; I don't like clubbing (absolute waste of money for me with no return), don't have a reliable circle of friends to do group stuff with (the ones who would do currently outshine me in various aspects anyways), and except for a single two-year period in my life where I had an awesome job and could afford to do stuff have usually been too broke to maintain a girl's interest past a first date.
My therapist and a few other people have said often I live too much in the future and am not present enough. My present finds me with a lack of motivation and productivity and I need to resolve that so I can do the work to ensure I have a future to live.
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