06-28-2015, 01:22 AM
(06-27-2015, 11:32 PM)Andarras Wrote: 1. Is the AM sub designed to do things like remove limiting beliefs/fears, replace them, give us a more dominant/assertive personality?
Do you mean limiting beliefs/fears regarding being dominant/assertive? If you do, I believe so, yes. For a short answer, yes, it does give us a more dominant/assertive personality. I never believed I had an inch of a dominant bone in me before Alpha Male. But, am I consciously being dominant/assertive now? No. I don't even think about it, I am just "myself". I can only account of my personal experience, Alpha Male has actually helped me to let go of the struggle and desperation of being a dominant. I'll not say that I am either submissive or dominant in day-to-day life, but if I want things a certain way for myself, it is happening that way. No comprises. On replacing beliefs, I'll replace the word replace with enhance. Again, speaking in the sense of dominance, if I am feeling submissive towards a girl, I am quite okay with it. Imagine two metals melted and merged. Running Alpha Male has melted the dominance and submission together and merged into one for me. If it make sense.
(06-27-2015, 11:32 PM)Andarras Wrote: 2. Does it install actions/beliefs etc that allow us to be more dominant/assertive?
Beliefs are interconnected, like a link of chains. I do not know if there are direct suggestion regarding installing dominant/assertive beliefs, but I am am sure as hell that you are programmed to not to be treated down, disrespected and walked over, in any way or form, from anybody. That might explain the link back to developing a dominant personality, if not directly implied.
(06-27-2015, 11:32 PM)Andarras Wrote: The reason I ask is that I'm not in your face, take what I want. Like when I meet a girl I'm not touchy-feely. It's not that I don' want to be but my 'conditioning' creates this rule that makes me not get into their personal space and be touchy-feely. If a girl moves into my space then I can respond in kind, but that means the girl is leading and ultimately I'm forcing her to take on the 'risk'.
Touch-feely can imply many things, there are guys who open up to a girl emotionally to get her feel attracted to themselves. Being "different" than your average jerk. We all know how it works out in the end. It can also imply just being aware of your emotions, embracing and simply expressing them. The difference is, the first ones serve a girl their heart in a golden plate to be manipulated. Getting into her frame of reality. The second ones, express themselves on their own frame of reality. "Hey girl, I like you, and this is how I feel about you, you up for a ride? Yes? Good! No? Too bad. On to the next stop." The point is: You don't have to enter into her frame even if you are touchy-feely. Lets say, be a detached romantic.
(06-27-2015, 11:32 PM)Andarras Wrote: 3. I can talk, and hold a conversation, but I'm not big on it. Like when I was on the dancefloor I would say something to the girl if I had something I wanted to say. Is this bad? How do guys have so much to say? The other guy was always saying something to her. What sort of stuff do guys say that allows them to have so much to say? lol
I hear you. Usually, I have overheard guys talking extremely silly things, and I am always like, "What the heck? He is behaving like a 5 year old. Better shut his mouth than to try to hold on a conversation." Though that's just my experience, there are brilliant conversationalists out there. I am not a big on holding conversations myself, but when I let go of the worry of what to say next and let my subconscious take over. I find myself having great fun. Let go of the control and see where it goes.
(06-27-2015, 11:32 PM)Andarras Wrote: 4. Have you guys done any work/processes to identify and transform beliefs? I got a book called End Game. The main concept is to not do something for a desired result. I don't believe you can live your life this way, but we can get to the point where we're non-needy, and not all about the outcome.
I write a lot to identify my beliefs, but the trick is, I do not think when I am writing, I let my hand take over. Sometimes I end up drawing strange figures, sometimes positive stuff, sometimes negative, you know. The magic is, when I reach to the point of identifying my belief and if its bugging me, it stops there itself. It vanishes itself. Awareness is transformation.
If you do not do something for a desired result and lose your grip on the desire itself, it takes the goal off the pedestal. Balance your relationship to it.
Hope it helps.